"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NoFap: Full month of June. You in!?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DAY 29.

GOT LAID TONIGHT BOYS.

GOD DAMN NO FAP MADE ME *** IN 40 SECONDS!!!!

i pulled out and was still kissing her and i was not touching it because i didn't want to *** but it just started coming out. She didn't notice so I started fvcking her again and within another 3 minutes I came again.

In my defense she was really hot.

FVCKING GOD DAMN NO FAP!!!!!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Failed today because there was some mild pain with the morning wood and I wanted to see if there was a medical condition. Therefore I looked at escort pics of Asians and fapped. There was no blood or indication that I'm in need of medical help. This excuse will not be used again for the rest of the month.

This thread is bumped up after a record of actually quitting fapping and I found it odd to see it up here again. To remind me of the goals to stop fapping altogether for the month of June.
 
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