You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Can't this just be substituted with increased testosterone? Solid gains in the gym? Career moves? Pride from building something or another passion that fuels the self-esteem?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
First off, it's me not he I wrote the post.
No. Your fully actualized sexual male self will not be fed
Onto the next then. A female who wants to give you pvssy or head will do that. Doesn't take extra effort.
This dude face looks like he's not getting none...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You just got to.... to put in in Jim Morrison's words... 'break on through to the other side!' It then becomes easy because a distorted libido consolidates to its natural and healthy form.
Yes they can tell if a guy has just had sex.
Your mind and body needs the attention of a babe who wants to give you some.
Unfortunately, money is the only way I can do that right now.
It's you... Go "fat" if you have to for a while.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I don't know what specific areas I have to work on. I usually just do out and get drunk and barely say a word to anyone.
Just get your swag to where you are phvcking and comfortable with it. Dont' get drunk out there that's not working. Maybe you pick up your next gf from a normal avenue. Get a GF, it's going to be easier to get a bunch of phvcks in versus trying to switch out girls. After you phvcked enough, you will find that by some "magical" property that you feel confident and ATTRACTIVE to other babes. But you gotta get some pvssy. It's like blood is to a vampire for a DJ.
This is the biggest challenge for me. I get super horny when hungover. Guess the answer is not to get drunk/hangovers, and pick up women instead.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hold up, player, Im never touching my **** again but I fuked a hore two days ago, the condom was full as fuk. Still nofap but no monk mode for any of us then lol
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
