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That's pretty close to the truth, I don't like being touched by anybody at all. I find the female form stimulating when
it's just an image on a screen but dealing with the real thing is very confusing for me. The woman I married pursued
me from the outset, we'd have never gotten together at all if it had been left to me to make an advance. Honestly? I
fap mostly to either keep me calmer as I can get worked up easily or to help me sleep when my mind starts racing. I just
feel like females are an alien species and I don't know what's expected of me in terms of conversation or behaviour or
how to escalate. It seems to me a bit rapey to proceed regardless of even minor resistance and my wife does have a
point, I don't particularly like women. Like being the operative word here. I think most of them are utter lunatics, with
over inflated egos and I won't entertain any of that BS just for access to a damp hole.
Well do you want to change? Like REALLY want to change, I mean. Cuz this is something that’s nigh on impossible to do otherwise. I’m talking about removing the aspies, because that’s where this thing is really heading.
 

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No, we're not. At least we all agree on that.

Of course, when you're ready to stop posing and flailing your little arms around for attention, you can come up and join us in civil discussion. Bygones will be bygones.
Stop getting salty just because I called you a cuck and a degenerate lol no matter what you say, those are still degenerate and cuck behaviors. Everyone knows it, it’s just a matter of how much in denial you are.
 

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Junk food still provides nutrition and energy, and alcohol does have actually have modest benefits including stress reduction; in small amounts it MAY be a net benefit to consume it. You can also make the case that many drugs have benefits that outweigh the costs.

Porn itself is not bad (especially pre-internet porn) but our modern high speed, streaming, free internet porn is inherently harmful and toxic by nature.

Also, porn is absolutely comparible to hardcore drugs in terms of its devastating effects on the brain. There are neurological studies proving it; that wasn't merely a statement I made for the sake of argument.
I tend to agree with you that because porn covers a very, very wide range of material and target audiences, universally condemning it is too much of a generalization.

Looking at some titty pics is not the same as some of the gross sh!t you can find online.

Drinking a glass of red wine with company is not the same as chugging vodka for breakfast.

Eating a cheeseburger after a long hike to replenish calories is not the same as being 600 lbs.
 

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everything in small doses is fine. a few lines of coke every few months is less harmful than gobbling down junk food most days.
 

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everything in small doses is fine. a few lines of coke every few months is less harmful than gobbling down junk food most days.
The problem is that many things are very difficult to do in moderation, it's often better to just avoid them completely.


I tend to agree with you that because porn covers a very, very wide range of material and target audiences, universally condemning it is too much of a generalization.

Looking at some titty pics is not the same as some of the gross sh!t you can find online.

Drinking a glass of red wine with company is not the same as chugging vodka for breakfast.

Eating a cheeseburger after a long hike to replenish calories is not the same as being 600 lbs.
You're missing my point. The issue with porn isn't any specific genre you're viewing, it's the fact that there is ENDLESS novelty INSTANTLY available almost anytime anywhere. You can hijack your reward center and provide it with endless hits of dopamine because there is so much free porn accessible at a moments notice.
 
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You're missing my point. The issue with porn isn't any specific genre you're viewing, it's the fact that there is ENDLESS novelty INSTANTLY available almost anytime anywhere. You can hijack your reward center and provide it with endless hits of dopamine because there is so much free porn accessible at a moments notice.
Again, my point is that the issue isn't with porn per se, it's with the fact that fvcked-up porn can be pulled up instantly on anyone's smartphone. Which I agree, isn't a good thing. But that doesn't mean porn is bad. It means the easy access to it, and extremity of it, causes compulsive use and addiction.
 

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This is more realistically attributable to a natural decline in testosterone and advancing decrepitude that comes with age. Body parts will eventually stop working the way they once did regardless of how you lived your life.
i look at it in terms of "wear and tear". If you're using a body part alot, whether it be a knee joint, shoulder joint or your johnson you wear it out faster in some regards. A penis isnt like a muscle you can tone up. Abuse to much over the years it eventually breaks.
 

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Well do you want to change? Like REALLY want to change, I mean. Cuz this is something that’s nigh on impossible to do otherwise. I’m talking about removing the aspies, because that’s where this thing is really heading.
I really want to be normal, I fear this may be an impossibility as I'm not so good at 'faking it to make it'
 
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