No, you do NOT love her...a comprehensive REALITY check!

[DasaniWater]

wow thank you so much. I guess I really am in love!

 

[Gubby]

Woa, Wildfire I know you from the archives so it feels really wierd to see you posting... like a relic from the ancient history of sosuave... what was it like in the days of Pook and Anti-dump?

If you don't mind me digressing

 

[Wyldfire]

Woa, Wildfire I know you from the archives so it feels really wierd to see you posting... like a relic from the ancient history of sosuave... what was it like in the days of Pook and Anti-dump?

If you don't mind me digressing

I've been here all along...I just don't start as many threads as I used to.

Anti-dump had left just before I got here. Back when I first joined the forum was more of a community where everyone was more interested in helping each other out than directing them to the bible, calling them a stupid "newb" or "AFC" or offering "Next!" as a typical canned response.

 

[whistler]

Great advice.

 

[flippinfreak]

Soooo, infatuation is simply what a PUA seeks from a woman eh?

I thought there was something more than interest involved...

Fooling women into having feelings of love when there really is nothing there... man these AFC tendencies of mine, I think I'm actually being evil by learning this stuff again.

 

[blueangel83]

In actuality, Wildfyre is turning you kids into monsters with a heart of stone lol.

Just trust your feelings.

 

[speedo_meme]

What the fukk??? What is this garbage you posted Wyldfire???


Just kidding. Great post.

 

[Wyldfire]

How can you explain being infatuated with someone because of their personality?

Love is something that doesn't go away. Once you love a person...true love...you don't stop loving them if you break up. Infatuation will pass and that feeling of "being in love" will disappear the second the relationship goes sour.

You're a chick...if you don't belive me about this, try it out on a guy. Go out of your way to make him think he's the smartest, sexiest, best man in the world. I guarantee you that he'll think he's in love with you in no time.

 

[blueangel83]

I've tried it out many a times and they just thanked me. They are not necessarily in love with me nor do I expect them to be.

So when someone compliments you, you instantly find yourself falling in love? even if the person is TOTALLY not your type? I think that's ridiculous.

 

[Wyldfire]

In actuality, Wildfyre is turning you kids into monsters with a heart of stone lol.

Just trust your feelings.

Instead of being upset I told these guys what it is that makes them ga ga over a woman why don't you just use this knowledge to make the guys you date want to commit to you? It's really extremely easy with a little practice. Every man I've ever been in a romantic relationship with has either asked me to marry him or brought up the idea of marriage. I'm a master at this...

 

[shumon]

Love is something that doesn't go away. Once you love a person...true love...you don't stop loving them if you break up. Infatuation will pass and that feeling of "being in love" will disappear the second the relationship goes sour.

You're a chick...if you don't belive me about this, try it out on a guy. Go out of your way to make him think he's the smartest, sexiest, best man in the world. I guarantee you that he'll think he's in love with you in no time.

very true indeed, this is correct

 

[Wyldfire]

I've tried it out many a times and they just thanked me. They are not necessarily in love with me nor do I expect them to be.

So when someone compliments you, you instantly find yourself falling in love? even if the person is TOTALLY not your type? I think that's ridiculous.

This is NOT verbal stuff, blueangel...this is stuff you make someone feel because of the way you act with them. It's how you can lead a relationship to go in the direction you would like it to. And you can't just do this to complete strangers. You can only do this with someone who is already at least somewhat interested in you. It's something more geared to be used when you are in a relationship or already dating someone.

 

[blueangel83]

You're NOT the only one who has been engaged many a times...nor is a master of the game.

I dated a guy who wanted to marry me the first 3 weeks we've been together.

Why would these guys be upset? They shouldn't control their feelings. If you're in love, you're in love, don't control it. What are they afraid of? being used? NOT everyone is a user out there haha.

 

[shumon]

I've tried it out many a times and they just thanked me. They are not necessarily in love with me nor do I expect them to be.

So when someone compliments you, you instantly find yourself falling in love? even if the person is TOTALLY not your type? I think that's ridiculous.

she is smart

 

[flippinfreak]

Man oh man

blueangel, shush would ya?

Wyldfire ain't trying to turn our hearts to stone, she's trying to make some AFC stop being an AFC...

She's pinin' on the AFC's on this site... this isn't supposed to be top notch material, this is for those guys who get duped into emotions...

So Wyldfire, how, after 6 months, do we tell if we don't have prolonged infatuation? How do we tell if a girl is not infatuated in us, but is actually in love?

I want to know for future LTR's because if a girl is faking love, after two years into our relationship and it goes sour, I don't want her to play my emotions by being a "wyldfire" and making me INFATUATED with my own feelings.

 

[Wyldfire]

You're NOT the only one who has been engaged many a times...nor is a master of the game.

I dated a guy who wanted to marry me the first 3 weeks we've been together.

Why would these guys be upset? They shouldn't control their feelings. If you're in love, you're in love, don't control it. What are they afraid of? being used? NOT everyone is a user out there haha.

There is no reason why they can't enjoy their relationships without mistakenly thinking that what they feel is love when it isn't. The knowledge I've shared will help them be stronger and better able to handle it when girls break up with them.

 

[blueangel83]

Thank you for the COMPLIMENT Shumon, but I can't be INFATUATED with you.

Flippinfreak, you're an idiot. There is nothing wrong with being an AFC. As a matter of fact, those AFC's are the ones who end up in long lasting relationships, compared to the lonely players. Why? because they are not afraid to express their feelings. Players think they're macho, etc... but at the end of the day, they know they're the ones getting played and heart broken.

 

[Wyldfire]

Man oh man

blueangel, shush would ya?

Wyldfire ain't trying to turn our hearts to stone, she's trying to make some AFC stop being an AFC...

She's pinin' on the AFC's on this site... this isn't supposed to be top notch material, this is for those guys who get duped into emotions...

So Wyldfire, how, after 6 months, do we tell if we don't have prolonged infatuation? How do we tell if a girl is not infatuated in us, but is actually in love?

I want to know for future LTR's because if a girl is faking love, after two years into our relationship and it goes sour, I don't want her to play my emotions by being a "wyldfire" and making me INFATUATED with my own feelings.

If the infatuation fades away and you stick it out through the comfort zone and still want to be together, like each other and enjoy each other's company then there is a very good chance some genuine feelings are growing. If a woman will stand by you when your life is sh*t and still want to be there for and with you she probably loves you.

 

[speedo_meme]

Thank you for the COMPLIMENT Shumon, but I can't be INFATUATED with you.

Flippinfreak, you're an idiot. There is nothing wrong with being an AFC. As a matter of fact, those AFC's are the ones who end up in long lasting relationships, compared to the lonely players. Why? because they are not afraid to express their feelings. Players think they're macho, etc... but at the end of the day, they know they're the ones getting played and heart broken.

This has got to be some troll with a girl's handle. Blueangel you've posted some of the most idiotic rubbish ever on sosuave. Why else would the b1tch post this sh1t if not to see what types of reactions you can get by equally ignorant AFC homos? Being AFC is completely wrong, I don't really feel like explaining it because your dumbass wouldn't comprehend it. This board is better without you.

Be gone you greasy vaginal secretion.

 

[DasaniWater]

LoL! I'm an AFC with my gf. Whenever i try DJ techniques she says ive changed and doesnt like it.. hmm but i know its bad