"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No wonder you're single

ozzfest

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over the years , every once in a while when a woman gets mad at me i hear this quote thrown at me. As if I am the one that has everything wrong with me and thats why I am still single.

1st of all like I said this quote is always thrown out there in moments when a particular woman is mad at me. Not furious, but irked at something i've either said or done. So they jab back with this line.

I find it odd when this comes out of there mouth. Usually we aren't even on the topic of dating or sex or anything like that. So when they say it I find it odd. Its almost as if its constantly on their mind that I'm single.

So I ask you is this insult sent at me cuz they are frustrated that I'm not dating them? Like subconciously they want to date me? I'm at a loss. Like I said its a weird thing to say to somebody.

and oh by the way..these arent even women I'd want to date so its not like I'm flirting with them although I have a feeling if they coudl they would want to date me. Not being an egomaniac cuz believe me you wouldn't date these women either.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lebRambo

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its more like people believe that having a bf/gf is a marker of success and worth as a human being. Its just not. These robots will work it out eventually.
 
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Either you are a "screw-up" or you have high standards!!!
 
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