"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No wonder you're single

ozzfest

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over the years , every once in a while when a woman gets mad at me i hear this quote thrown at me. As if I am the one that has everything wrong with me and thats why I am still single.

1st of all like I said this quote is always thrown out there in moments when a particular woman is mad at me. Not furious, but irked at something i've either said or done. So they jab back with this line.

I find it odd when this comes out of there mouth. Usually we aren't even on the topic of dating or sex or anything like that. So when they say it I find it odd. Its almost as if its constantly on their mind that I'm single.

So I ask you is this insult sent at me cuz they are frustrated that I'm not dating them? Like subconciously they want to date me? I'm at a loss. Like I said its a weird thing to say to somebody.

and oh by the way..these arent even women I'd want to date so its not like I'm flirting with them although I have a feeling if they coudl they would want to date me. Not being an egomaniac cuz believe me you wouldn't date these women either.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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lebRambo

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its more like people believe that having a bf/gf is a marker of success and worth as a human being. Its just not. These robots will work it out eventually.
 
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Either you are a "screw-up" or you have high standards!!!
 
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