"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No wonder women are always looking at your shoes
- Thread starter tmpgstx
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats not why i look at shoes.
the cleaner a guy shoes are the more anal he is about everything.
never date a guy who has clean shoes unless he says, "like my new shoes?"
then its kewl.
the cleaner a guy shoes are the more anal he is about everything.
never date a guy who has clean shoes unless he says, "like my new shoes?"
then its kewl.
Boner da Stoner
Master Don Juan
well I blew that chart away, it is way off... Is it talking length or girth? Either way it makes me look bad.
Hehe, My shoes are shiny like a mirror, thats why I always look at the floor... I'm no stickler for fashion, I just like girls who don't wear panties with their skirts
Hehe, My shoes are shiny like a mirror, thats why I always look at the floor... I'm no stickler for fashion, I just like girls who don't wear panties with their skirts
Egoist
Master Don Juan
wow i have a HUGE penis!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
"Young black men, when you're at the movies and some one steps on your shoe, LET IT SLIDE. Why spend the next 10 years in jail because somebody smugged your puma"
~Chris Rock
~Chris Rock
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Ya' don't have to be a basketball player...Originally posted by \O/
So basically every basketball player has a 10 inch penis?
Funny theory, but to me it's way off..
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
Acording to the chart I have a 9.6 inch penis... I wish!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.