"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No woman has ever made me feel this way

kyphan

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Last night I met someone who will probably change my life. We talked for a little while; the conversation made me excited. I was amazed at how incredible another person could be and how powerful ideas are a sweeter symphony than those three words. After exchanging numbers, I got a little sample of things to come. I couldn’t help myself so I returned the favor, and suddenly all the women around me wanted my nuts. That itself was incredibly validating.

I’m telling you guys, this one is not all about the package; it’s about much bigger things.

As I drove home I was ecstatic. I rarely feel that good. I’m not sure I ever felt that good in my entire life – my whole life was about to change. I couldn’t help myself, I had to see it again, touch it again, and so I did. I held what had been given to me in my hands: a plastic container made out of non-genetically modified corn that is 100% biodegradable and can withstand the “high” setting on a microwave. This is going to change the world.

Time to back up a little….

I manage the day-to-day happenings of an organic peanut butter and nut mix company. Our products are the healthiest on the market, all designed by a certified nutritionist/personal trainer to be high in protein, low-carb, and without added sugar. My major was Entrepreneurship in college, and when I started with this company my Entrepreneurship professor asked me to be the keynote speaker at this year’s business plan competition banquet. The winning undergraduate business is the one I mentioned above – and it’s a real business, not just a project. No one else has been able to create a biodegradable plastic that can withstand higher temperatures – and theirs costs less to make. We package our products in plastic, not glass, and have been looking at more ecologically friendly containers as we grow and can afford to place larger orders (re: there’s a minimum order for the recyclable containers, believe it or not). What they do excited me, and what I do excited them.

To put it simply: doing something good with your life is more powerful, intoxicating, and exciting than anything else.

It hit me like it did in college: there are bigger things than women. Life is so much bigger than pursuing women. Feeling lonely is a state of mind, not a place we find ourselves in. If I had to give up women to pursue my dreams I would. I actually did for part of college, I was so focused on what I was doing that finding one was one of the last things I wanted to do. If you have never met with this reality, that finding a woman is not a big deal and definitely not the focal point of your life, you still have a long way to go.

I missed this feeling. I’m so glad I found my way back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kyphan said:
I held what had been given to me in my hands: a plastic container made out of non-genetically modified corn that is 100% biodegradable and can withstand the “high” setting on a microwave. This is going to change the world.

No one else has been able to create a biodegradable plastic that can withstand higher temperatures – and theirs costs less to make. We package our products in plastic, not glass, and have been looking at more ecologically friendly containers as we grow and can afford to place larger orders (re: there’s a minimum order for the recyclable containers, believe it or not).
That's awesome! See what men can accomplish when women aren't draining our attention?

But, isn't that corn plastic already being used? And can we buy stock in this product yet?
 

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wayword said:
That's awesome! See what men can accomplish when women aren't draining our attention?

But, isn't that corn plastic already being used? And can we buy stock in this product yet?
I knew someone would get something out of this thread. Not everything here should be strictly about getting girls.

Corn-based plastic is being used, and a number of huge companies have been trying to improve what they've created. Unfortunately for them, it costs about 35% more than petroleum-based plastic and most of it melts if you simply pour coffee in it. This stuff costs less than 15% more than petroleum-based plastic AND it can tolerate high temperatures. As oil prices increase, this will become more and more feasible.

And they're a tiny company right now - unless you're ready to step up as an Angel investor or direct the Venture Capitalist firm you invest with to their doorstep, there's no way we can get in on the action.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Docs said:
Hey, isn't there edible corn-based candy wrappers hiding around somewhere in the world?
Asian treats are yummy.
 

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gherald said:
huh?

Is it appropriate to post that here?
he means chasing woman is not the point of life. rather than chasing your dreams and becoming sucessful in the important areas then the quailty people will come to you, such as girls and friends. smart friends who share the same aspect of goals.
you attract other things such as class, confidence. self movtiation.. you create a habbit of excellence

and i have to give props to this guy because i agree with him.

when you start becoming a winner, you get notice.. not by some ppl but by quailty ppl as well.. and you give them the permission to do the same. thats what i call motivation
 
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Kyphan, these dudes will get the intent of your message when, in the future, they are sitting on the sofa looking at their fat wife bending over picking up the batteries that fell out of the remote control when it fell!!
 

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kyphan said:
And they're a tiny company right now - unless you're ready to step up as an Angel investor or direct the Venture Capitalist firm you invest with to their doorstep, there's no way we can get in on the action.
Dude, this will be HUGE. And I mean HUUUGEEEEEE. You're talking about replacing plastic, glass and styrofoam cups, bottles, food containers, shopping bags, baby bottles, etc etc - and boosting the corn industry.

Please PM me when you're about to IPO! I will load up on your stock!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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