InsidiousNstinct
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Yep...that freakin book is huge. Im plaining on buying it. I got to like law 14 and quit haha.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
NO whiners
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
lets all make it an issue to try to get rid of some negativity and away from some toxic people that spread it.
we may not be 100% happy all the time, but we dont have to act 100% unhappy all the time !!
good to see some points of view on this matter.
we may not be 100% happy all the time, but we dont have to act 100% unhappy all the time !!
good to see some points of view on this matter.
SELF-MASTERY
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i'M TRYING To figure out if Im negative or a realist.... I wonder if there's anything wrong with calling sh** sh**?
As much as I hate the whiners, i hate the think positive crows as much.... Every problem or emotion doesnt have a quick solution......
As much as I hate the whiners, i hate the think positive crows as much.... Every problem or emotion doesnt have a quick solution......
Poindexter
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The 48 Laws of Power should have been a standard text for you DJ's, as well as, 'The Art of Seduction', by the same author. I'd be quite surprised if you hadn't read one or both of these considering your apparent interests...
InsidiousNstinct
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2/3 of the way done with it. Really good book. I've learned more with it than wit hthe DJ bible or David D material, etc.
*Gets the feeling he's doing a commerical*
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dimebag_Darrell
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I whine because it keeps me from both becoming a pushover and avoiding a ride to the police department for 1st degree battery
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oh no a tough guy whiner:woo:
Heh, Good post..
I learned a great thing in the military, it's what our drill instructors kept shouting at us, once anyone complained:
Love the situation.
ALLWAYS love the situation. Does whining help? No, it just brings other people down too.
So, you're single, congratulations, you are now free to decide what to do yourself, you can screw any woman you'd like, take a dump with the door open, and you don't have to put the seat down after taking a piss...
Positive outlook on life, helps alot. And besides, who likes a whiner??
//Deus
I learned a great thing in the military, it's what our drill instructors kept shouting at us, once anyone complained:
Love the situation.
ALLWAYS love the situation. Does whining help? No, it just brings other people down too.
So, you're single, congratulations, you are now free to decide what to do yourself, you can screw any woman you'd like, take a dump with the door open, and you don't have to put the seat down after taking a piss...
Positive outlook on life, helps alot. And besides, who likes a whiner??
//Deus
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
No matter what situation your in, If there's nothing you can do about it to improve it, just learn to like/love it.
Allways look at the positive sides of ANY GIVEN situaton.
It takes some time to get used to the idea, but, we all learn this lesson sooner or later.
It's all about being enthustiastic and optimistic.
Let's take the old annalogy "is the glass off orange juice half full, or half empty"
Who cares? as long as it ain't to the brim, you can pour in some Jaegermeifter and make a decent drink out of it...
THATS the mindset to strive for...
//deus
Allways look at the positive sides of ANY GIVEN situaton.
It takes some time to get used to the idea, but, we all learn this lesson sooner or later.
It's all about being enthustiastic and optimistic.
Let's take the old annalogy "is the glass off orange juice half full, or half empty"
Who cares? as long as it ain't to the brim, you can pour in some Jaegermeifter and make a decent drink out of it...
THATS the mindset to strive for...
//deus
Well, For me, it finally dawned that it was a waste of energy and that I brought my squadmates down, when I was walking in piss rain, - degrees C, with 2 broken bones in my left foot and carrying my gear and backpack, my mates backpack, my standard AK5, a anti tank weapon, and a tank mine at 2.15 am a tuesday morning.
I think it's up to individual, and his life experiences. When you hit rock bottom, you can only head up.
Maybe I'm just crazy, cracked and became a lunatic. OR I reached enlightenement.
//Deus
I think it's up to individual, and his life experiences. When you hit rock bottom, you can only head up.
Maybe I'm just crazy, cracked and became a lunatic. OR I reached enlightenement.
//Deus
Impressive! I've heard military training does things to your mind that make you impervious to hardship like that.
Unfortunately, I've got a long way to go before I hit rock bottom.
I'm at that neutral point where life doesn't suck, but isn't a 24 hour ego trip either, so I have zero motivation.
Unfortunately, I've got a long way to go before I hit rock bottom.
I'm at that neutral point where life doesn't suck, but isn't a 24 hour ego trip either, so I have zero motivation.
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Cool! So you're in a neutral point??
That's GREAT Just pour on the Jaegermeifter and get going!!
You ain't even feeling ****ty with yourself??
Glue that smile on and your set!
Hah! Keep it up! your doing great!!
//Deus
That's GREAT Just pour on the Jaegermeifter and get going!!
You ain't even feeling ****ty with yourself??
Glue that smile on and your set!Hah! Keep it up! your doing great!!
//Deus
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The worst thing in the world that you can be is ambivalent ... at least with feeling sh!tty you're motivated to improve things.
Nirvana is overrated; especially if you're the kind of guy who can enjoy pain as well as pleasure.
Nirvana is overrated; especially if you're the kind of guy who can enjoy pain as well as pleasure.
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penkitten
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is there truely a nirvana ?
i cant imagine that here in this life.