Note to all DJ members...dont get into heated debates, there's no way to win. If you concede just to placate her because she is so impassioned about her point, you'll lose her (and your self-) respect...If you continue to debate (and win) you will embitter her, and she will figure out a way to turn it around into you 'disrespecting her by being so condescending'.
Learned this the hard way
Learned this the hard way