"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No way to win when it comes to debating girlfriends re: politics, abortion, etc etc

Semtex

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Note to all DJ members...dont get into heated debates, there's no way to win. If you concede just to placate her because she is so impassioned about her point, you'll lose her (and your self-) respect...If you continue to debate (and win) you will embitter her, and she will figure out a way to turn it around into you 'disrespecting her by being so condescending'.

Learned this the hard way :up:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Desert Fox

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Why would you debate anyone about these kind of things unless it was your job? Complete waste of time. Just assume they are idiots for not thinking the same thing you are, which is obviously the correct way to think if you are a genius like me.
 

Mike32ct

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Semtex said:
Note to all DJ members...dont get into heated debates, there's no way to win. If you concede just to placate her because she is so impassioned about her point, you'll lose her (and your self-) respect...If you continue to debate (and win) you will embitter her, and she will figure out a way to turn it around into you 'disrespecting her by being so condescending'.

Learned this the hard way :up:
Me too. I got into some political debates with a female friend. It was a total waste of time. It's not bad with men, but it gets very ugly and personal with women.
 

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