"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No trend to weight gain/loss

adpreston1988

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I've been keeping a spread sheet of my caloric intake, weight, and exercises daily for the past 2-3 weeks. I have seen no trends though. It doesn't make any sense. Sometimes I'll exercise a hell of a lot, barely eat and still gain weight. And other times I'll pig out and lose weight. These are the data I've been keeping the past 2-3 weeks. Let me know if there's something I'm missing, so maybe I can figure out a trend to my weight gain/loss. Otherwise it's very hard to maintain a stable weight.


Exercise Calories (weight)
50 squats, 30 situps, 50jj, 10pushups 720 (146)
100 squats, 60 situps 50jj 1590 (145)
50 squats, 60 situps 50 jj 1530 (146.5)
50 squats, 60 situps 50 jj, 2340 (146.5)
50 squats, 60 situps, 20 pushups 1420 (148)
NCRB (400 calories), 50 squats 2940 (148)
50 jj, 30 situps 1700 (147.5)
70 situps, 10 pushups 2750 (152.5)
45 bike ride 360 (150)
60 situps, 20 pushups, 30 squats 2210 (152)
60 situps, 50 jj, 10 pushups, 45 bike ride 1680 (150)
60 situps, walk (200 calories) 3805 (152)
30 situps, 10 pushups 1920 (152.5)
60 situps, 100 jj, 10 pushups 1190 (150)
30 situps, CCRB (250 calories) 1480 (148)
30 situps, CCRB (350 calories), walk (200 calories) 1880 (147.5)
60 situps, 10 pushups walk (120 calories) 1595 (149)
30 situps, 10 pushups, 50 jj 3050 (150)
walk (100 calories) 1790 (147)
30 situps, 20 pushups, 50 squats, walk (450 calories) 1735 (148.5)
30 situps, 10 pushups, CCRB (250 calories) 780 (145.5)
30 situps, 10 pushups, 50 jj, CCRB (300 calories) 2945 (148.5)
30 situps, 10 pushups 1405 (147.5)


all the calories in the exercise column indicate how many calories I burned off in the gym via tread mill/bike. Anyways, I always weigh myself at the same time of day.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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BluEyes

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Dude, 2-3 weeks is hardly long enough to see noticable changes. If you saw any weight loss at first, it's water loss, not fat/muscle.

That being said...When you don't eat, your metabolism goes way down, causing you to gain weight.

When you "pig out", it keeps your metabolism up, causing you to lose weight. Be careful with eating though, you CAN eat too much very easily.

To maintain a stable weight you have to be consistent with everything. Eat the same amount of food each day, do the same amount of cardio each day, do the same amount of weight training each day, get the same amount of sleep each day, drink the same amount of water each day, etc.

There are alot of variables, just try to be consistent with them and you'll achieve stability. Once you control all the factors, you'll be able to tweak each one individually depending on whether you want to gain/lose weight.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I like to call this weight fluctuation, and it means jack sh*t


Try taking your weight once a week. For 6 months. THEN make a thread about it.
 
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