"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No trend to weight gain/loss

adpreston1988

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I've been keeping a spread sheet of my caloric intake, weight, and exercises daily for the past 2-3 weeks. I have seen no trends though. It doesn't make any sense. Sometimes I'll exercise a hell of a lot, barely eat and still gain weight. And other times I'll pig out and lose weight. These are the data I've been keeping the past 2-3 weeks. Let me know if there's something I'm missing, so maybe I can figure out a trend to my weight gain/loss. Otherwise it's very hard to maintain a stable weight.


Exercise Calories (weight)
50 squats, 30 situps, 50jj, 10pushups 720 (146)
100 squats, 60 situps 50jj 1590 (145)
50 squats, 60 situps 50 jj 1530 (146.5)
50 squats, 60 situps 50 jj, 2340 (146.5)
50 squats, 60 situps, 20 pushups 1420 (148)
NCRB (400 calories), 50 squats 2940 (148)
50 jj, 30 situps 1700 (147.5)
70 situps, 10 pushups 2750 (152.5)
45 bike ride 360 (150)
60 situps, 20 pushups, 30 squats 2210 (152)
60 situps, 50 jj, 10 pushups, 45 bike ride 1680 (150)
60 situps, walk (200 calories) 3805 (152)
30 situps, 10 pushups 1920 (152.5)
60 situps, 100 jj, 10 pushups 1190 (150)
30 situps, CCRB (250 calories) 1480 (148)
30 situps, CCRB (350 calories), walk (200 calories) 1880 (147.5)
60 situps, 10 pushups walk (120 calories) 1595 (149)
30 situps, 10 pushups, 50 jj 3050 (150)
walk (100 calories) 1790 (147)
30 situps, 20 pushups, 50 squats, walk (450 calories) 1735 (148.5)
30 situps, 10 pushups, CCRB (250 calories) 780 (145.5)
30 situps, 10 pushups, 50 jj, CCRB (300 calories) 2945 (148.5)
30 situps, 10 pushups 1405 (147.5)


all the calories in the exercise column indicate how many calories I burned off in the gym via tread mill/bike. Anyways, I always weigh myself at the same time of day.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BluEyes

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Dude, 2-3 weeks is hardly long enough to see noticable changes. If you saw any weight loss at first, it's water loss, not fat/muscle.

That being said...When you don't eat, your metabolism goes way down, causing you to gain weight.

When you "pig out", it keeps your metabolism up, causing you to lose weight. Be careful with eating though, you CAN eat too much very easily.

To maintain a stable weight you have to be consistent with everything. Eat the same amount of food each day, do the same amount of cardio each day, do the same amount of weight training each day, get the same amount of sleep each day, drink the same amount of water each day, etc.

There are alot of variables, just try to be consistent with them and you'll achieve stability. Once you control all the factors, you'll be able to tweak each one individually depending on whether you want to gain/lose weight.
 

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I like to call this weight fluctuation, and it means jack sh*t


Try taking your weight once a week. For 6 months. THEN make a thread about it.
 
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