No tolerance for BS

[Desdinova]

The girl I was dating had her house broken into about a month ago and had her computer stolen. I couldn't resist the urge to help out, so I built one for her to use until insurance could replace hers. No biggie, I had a bunch of spare parts kicking around that didn't cost me nothing.

Yesterday, I just breezed across POF. They show you who's online even without logging in. There's her picture right at the top of the list. Add to the fact that she hasn't had time for me in the last couple of weeks.

NO, you do NOT use my generosity to interact with other men on a dating site.

NEXT

 

[L B]

Maybe you should break into her house and take your computer back. Wait a minute...maybe that break in was an ex trying to reclaim that his laptop.

 

[spider_007]

^lol....funny sh!t

 

[jophil28]

The girl I was dating had her house broken into about a month ago and had her computer stolen. I couldn't resist the urge to help out....

Perhaps - " I couldn't resist that opportunity to do her a favor hoping that she would repay me with some nookie " ..??? :kick:

 

[squirrels]

Des, man...come on.

First of all, if she's at all attractive, you should expect competition. I went on a first date with a cutie last night...date ended with the usual make-out/heavy petting, I had to go home and do some work but as soon as I got home I signed on to PoF...there she was. We all want to think that once a girl spends time with us she'll forget every other guy in the world...but it just doesn't work that way.

Second, don't build a computer for a girl...not if you want to bang her.

 

[st_99]

Second, don't build a computer for a girl...not if you want to bang her.

...

 

[Bluntmaster]

Des, man...come on.

First of all, if she's at all attractive, you should expect competition. I went on a first date with a cutie last night...date ended with the usual make-out/heavy petting, I had to go home and do some work but as soon as I got home I signed on to PoF...there she was. We all want to think that once a girl spends time with us she'll forget every other guy in the world...but it just doesn't work that way.

Second, don't build a computer for a girl...not if you want to bang her.

She went on POF after your date because you didn't close the deal. Heavy petting? She wanted to get pounded. Heavy petting is for closers.

 

[The Duke]

Unless you have some agreement about being exclusive then anything is up for grabs. What the hell were you guys doing on POF anyways! haha

 

[Bluntmaster]

Yeah, just say NO to bulding computers for your woman. No TV, no computers. Buy her some books and call it a day.

 

[Solomon]

I had a girl be on POF once on a date cause she was helping her sister out, women have no respect these days, my ex FB came over just to "hang out" and she is always on her "crackberry"

Des you honestly can't get mad if you ain't exclusive but I hope you got a lil something out the deal before you build her computer yes?

 

[squirrels]

She went on POF after your date because you didn't close the deal. Heavy petting? She wanted to get pounded. Heavy petting is for closers.

Probably, but time was a factor. I'm not gonna get hung up on one girl, nor am I going to abdicate my professional responsibilities to get a piece of arse.

I don't go into first-dates expecting any more than 2nd-3rd base. Any more than that and the girl considers it a one-night stand, which means one f**k and done. I'm just getting back into this crap and I'm short on plates so I don't need ONSes right now, I need near-term f**k-buddies. Once you have 2 or 3 NTFBs, the ONSes find you.

It's a hard line to walk. You don't give them enough "play" and they lose interest. You give them too MUCH and they don't take you seriously.

Strange how that is...my mindset is completely the inverse of what it should be. Normally it's the WOMAN who is deciding how much "play" to give out. I think it's a place every guy should get to...even if you only have one or two girls, get to where YOU are the one who is deciding where the sex stops.

Put the sexual power back in the hands of the man. All you have to do is realize that f**king really DOESN'T matter as much as we're conditioned to believe. Sure, it's a blast...but society reinforces the idea that "men can't live without sex" because it makes us easier to predict/control/market to. That's garbage...and the "natural Don Juans" know this.

You ever have a friend who was great with women who turned down some easy ass? You ever get on his case about it? The response you get is something along the line of, "It's not a big deal, I've gotten plenty of ass".

Just something to think about.

 

[Desdinova]

First, this isn't like a one date thing. It's a 3 month thing. Second, we had the discussion about seeing other people. Third, she's telling me she just goes on there to talk to people. This isn't facebook, it's POF, the place you go meet people to fvck.

I have no problem with the competition nor her talking to other guys, but this is POF. I don't go on there unless I'm looking for women.

 

[Colossus]

Damn, that's a burn Des. I guess next time withhold your generosity for a while. I think a lot of women will take services from a man without any sense of honor about it. I mean, if my friend came over and helped me fix my car, I would definitely be indebted to the guy. Even if I didnt hand the guy cash I would repay him one way or another. But men have a different sense about these things.

 

[Bluntmaster]

First, this isn't like a one date thing. It's a 3 month thing. Second, we had the discussion about seeing other people. Third, she's telling me she just goes on there to talk to people. This isn't facebook, it's POF, the place you go meet people to fvck.

I have no problem with the competition nor her talking to other guys, but this is POF. I don't go on there unless I'm looking for women.

Did you verbally go off on her about it, or just go silent?

 

[Desdinova]

Did you verbally go off on her about it, or just go silent?

No, I brought it up. It all ended up very messy. Too bad, I kinda liked that chick. Oh well.

Regardless, I went and got another chick last night and had her over the same night. I generally NEVER do that, but getting another woman to get over a previous one really does help me move on. Spin those plates!

I guess next time withhold your generosity for a while.

Yeah, I knew that was the wrong thing to do. I'm still trying to adapt back into the single life. Best to keep the favors for when she's in a LTR with me. Until that happens, stingy and cheap is the way to go. No woman is worth the emotional nor financial investment until a LTR is developed.

 

[Slickster]

Put the sexual power back in the hands of the man. All you have to do is realize that f**king really DOESN'T matter as much as we're conditioned to believe. Sure, it's a blast...but society reinforces the idea that "men can't live without sex" because it makes us easier to predict/control/market to. That's garbage...and the "natural Don Juans" know this.

You ever have a friend who was great with women who turned down some easy ass? You ever get on his case about it? The response you get is something along the line of, "It's not a big deal, I've gotten plenty of ass".

Just something to think about.

Every guy on this site needs to read this quote.

 

[Slickster]

The girl I was dating had her house broken into about a month ago and had her computer stolen. I couldn't resist the urge to help out, so I built one for her to use until insurance could replace hers. No biggie, I had a bunch of spare parts kicking around that didn't cost me nothing.

Yesterday, I just breezed across POF. They show you who's online even without logging in. There's her picture right at the top of the list. Add to the fact that she hasn't had time for me in the last couple of weeks.

NO, you do NOT use my generosity to interact with other men on a dating site.

NEXT

Aww man this sucks.

If you gave her that computer just because you truly felt bad about the break in then you have NO right to be upset about how she's using it.

Are you sure you weren't trying to be a nice guy in order to increase your value? Sure you were. It may have worked for a moment but you know these things don't really work.

Confronting her about it was wrong. Her IL was lower than you thought. Seeing her on POF just confirmed it. A confrontation here does nothing but get messy.

 

[squirrels]

http://www.tshirthell.com/funny-shi...size=3:+CHOOSE+A+SIZE&stype=lime&is_fivestar=

Aw fugg...once again the language filter on this site hoses up a link.

Replace "***" with c-u-m

Yeesh, who the hell runs a website about seducing and laying women and censors words like that?

 

[Bluntmaster]

I think the best thing to do here would have been to just next her in your mind. When a man nexts a woman, he just goes silent. He never speaks to her again. If she then comes around for a screw, you can take it and then never speak to her again for the win.

 

[Bluntmaster]

Probably, but time was a factor. I'm not gonna get hung up on one girl, nor am I going to abdicate my professional responsibilities to get a piece of arse.

Yeah I don't blame you. Time would be a factor for me if I met some nasty skanK off POF. You met her on POF right?