No tolerance for BS

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Juan

Dec 12, 2010

Colossus said:
Damn, that's a burn Des. I guess next time withhold your generosity for a while. I think a lot of women will take services from a man without any sense of honor about it. I mean, if my friend came over and helped me fix my car, I would definitely be indebted to the guy. Even if I didnt hand the guy cash I would repay him one way or another. But men have a different sense about these things.

Even if she does intend on repaying him, its probably not with p*ssy. I don't know about you, but thats how I seduce all my girls, "Hey baby, you know I'm really good with computers right..." :crackup:

How do the ladies resist that?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.