“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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This year has been insane. I haven't had time to do anything but work, spend time with my daughter and sleep. I have zero time to do anything else right now. Anyone else run into this?

I meant to get back in the game this year, but right now it's hard to find the time or energy to even try. I got a number last friday night at a birthday party and actually forgot about it until today. On the other hand, I'll have my car paid off in a few months.

The way things are going I'll be lucky to get out 1 or 2 nights a month.
 

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Got divorced[wife moved out] then flooded. had to clean up after the contractors,buy new furniture for the basement etc. had about 7 months when I COULD legally chase,but had a messy house...so why bother? Before that, my attorney advised me NOT to date until it was final.
 

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Dear Warrior,
Yeah.... most of us go through periods like this,you are not Robinson Crusoe......The good News is,that lots of really fine quality Women go through the same,you just have to hook up,recognise your shared situation and make the most of it....effectively they become F.B's,the encounters can be amazingly quick,a few hours after Supper,a fleeting grapple at Lunch time....even though you are free White and 21,it's a bit like having an affair,and millions do!
 

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Just go with the flow for now. Like you said, your car is almost paid off and you are spending time with your daughter.

It's been a little crazy for me this year, but I will get back in the game on Valentine Day. Meanwhile, I'm getting my life back together.
 

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So I called the chic from friday. Shes in grad school and working herself. She thought I had forgotten about her. Apparently I made an impression. Set up a meet for next week.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Warrior74 said:
So I called the chic from friday. Shes in grad school and working herself. She thought I had forgotten about her. Apparently I made an impression. Set up a meet for next week.
And, you'll get your car paid off!!!!
 
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