"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No time to setup dates... I'm pissed...

neobrood

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Omg didnt know college is this damn busy.

Yeah I got some digits in here but whether I like to take it to the next level or not... I still won't be able to.

Now how bout the weekend?

Of course I can't cuz I need to work the entire time just to get some stuff paid... :mad:

I think this is the reason why I'm kinda getting depressed these days.

Man I can't wait till college is over (in maybe 12 months from now)... :(
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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squirrels

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What time do you get off work? Explain your situation and ask her if she wants to come up and....watch a movie. Yeah, that's it. :D
 

comic_relief

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welcome to the real world

Where all of your time is spent doing something. I am in a problem just like you. Between homework, baseball, school, weight lift, sleep at 9PM, and work. Yeah I have to say that I can't do anything like get a girl with this. I just do my self-improvement stuff.
 
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