"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
no thanks to a coffe date..
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jukeboxhero
Senior Don Juan
Uhhh, that's a pretty clear and obvious sign that she's not interested in you. Unless she's the only girl that goes to your school (or wherever) I would keep looking.intel123 said:
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Then bring her back to your place
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Maxtro
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Roofie Coladaintel123 said:
You can't be serious.intel123 said:
If she just straight up said "no thanks" I would take that as a really big sign of disinterest on her part. Usually a girl won't just say "no" unless she really isn't interested. Even if they don't want to go out with you, they'll usually make up some stupid excuse because they don't want to hurt your feelings or something.
Don't take it personally, this kind of thing happens to everyone. She might have a boyfriend, she might be a carpet muncher, or she could just really not like you. Whatever. It's not a big deal.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
It's like getting a girl drunk purposely so she's easier to get to.
I say you should forget about this girl and meet new girls, she doesn't really sound like a friend if she wouldn't even go out for coffee with you.
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