"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
no thanks to a coffe date..
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jukeboxhero
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Uhhh, that's a pretty clear and obvious sign that she's not interested in you. Unless she's the only girl that goes to your school (or wherever) I would keep looking.intel123 said:
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Then bring her back to your place
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Maxtro
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Roofie Coladaintel123 said:
You can't be serious.intel123 said:
If she just straight up said "no thanks" I would take that as a really big sign of disinterest on her part. Usually a girl won't just say "no" unless she really isn't interested. Even if they don't want to go out with you, they'll usually make up some stupid excuse because they don't want to hurt your feelings or something.
Don't take it personally, this kind of thing happens to everyone. She might have a boyfriend, she might be a carpet muncher, or she could just really not like you. Whatever. It's not a big deal.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
It's like getting a girl drunk purposely so she's easier to get to.
I say you should forget about this girl and meet new girls, she doesn't really sound like a friend if she wouldn't even go out for coffee with you.
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