"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No talking at all when not together!

DonJuanit0

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So there is this girl I met in a club! We started dancing and then came the kissing part! She is a HB 8! Now, that happened the previous Saturday and after that we've spoken only 2 times, one on Monday (just random topics if I remember right) and the second one on Thursday when we got ourselves a date for Friday! Both of the times, I was the first to send! On Friday, yesterday, we went out, talked, laughed, had kino, I could see in her reactions that she was so into me! So, after we left the cafe we went over to a friend of hers to give her something, I waited in my car and when she came back we started kissing and staff... We did a lot except for the sex part since it was our first date and though I made the move she said no so I didn't insist! I left her at her home and I stopped kissing her first to see if she would continue and so she did, she came on me and started kissing me again with passion!

Now, we've spoken only 2 times through sms and It's been 1 day from Friday night! She doesn't send me anything and so am I! Neither after the club at the first time nor after Friday! I'm like, wtf? I know she wants us to continue but it's the first time I don't talk at all with a girl I've done those things!

My question is, should I try to send her first? and if so, if she continue acting like this should I always be the first to send? (which I find completely wrong) or should I just wait and see...? Or even say something to her like a joke, "wtf? how come we only speak when we meet each other?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tiguere

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Just call her to setup dates.
Stop the texting.
Avoid calling her to chit chat.

And last but not least spin some plates to avoid playing t he female role of " he doesn't call me is he interested?"
 

DonJuanit0

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oh, trust me I know she is interested! :p I just find it weird...
 
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