"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No talking at all when not together!

DonJuanit0

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So there is this girl I met in a club! We started dancing and then came the kissing part! She is a HB 8! Now, that happened the previous Saturday and after that we've spoken only 2 times, one on Monday (just random topics if I remember right) and the second one on Thursday when we got ourselves a date for Friday! Both of the times, I was the first to send! On Friday, yesterday, we went out, talked, laughed, had kino, I could see in her reactions that she was so into me! So, after we left the cafe we went over to a friend of hers to give her something, I waited in my car and when she came back we started kissing and staff... We did a lot except for the sex part since it was our first date and though I made the move she said no so I didn't insist! I left her at her home and I stopped kissing her first to see if she would continue and so she did, she came on me and started kissing me again with passion!

Now, we've spoken only 2 times through sms and It's been 1 day from Friday night! She doesn't send me anything and so am I! Neither after the club at the first time nor after Friday! I'm like, wtf? I know she wants us to continue but it's the first time I don't talk at all with a girl I've done those things!

My question is, should I try to send her first? and if so, if she continue acting like this should I always be the first to send? (which I find completely wrong) or should I just wait and see...? Or even say something to her like a joke, "wtf? how come we only speak when we meet each other?"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tiguere

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Just call her to setup dates.
Stop the texting.
Avoid calling her to chit chat.

And last but not least spin some plates to avoid playing t he female role of " he doesn't call me is he interested?"
 

DonJuanit0

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oh, trust me I know she is interested! :p I just find it weird...
 
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