"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dannowillbookem

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BLONDEBARBIE1: hey guess what
jojoeyes: m?
BLONDEBARBIE1: i want u
jojoeyes: of course you do.
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: good answer
jojoeyes: lol better answer than that other idiot gave
BLONDEBARBIE1: every guy always says i want u too or like so do u wanna hang out
BLONDEBARBIE1: and u didnt
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
BLONDEBARBIE1: hey guess what
jojoeyes: m?
BLONDEBARBIE1: i want u
jojoeyes: of course you do.
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: good answer
jojoeyes: lol better answer than that other idiot gave
BLONDEBARBIE1: every guy always says i want u too or like so do u wanna hang out
BLONDEBARBIE1: and u didnt
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: !
This is what happens when you've been on the computer for too long. :)

In all fairness though, it's an interesting point you bring up. Most guys are desperate for a girl to want them.... why???? Why?!?!?!?!?! Why?!!?!?!?!?!?!??~?~?!?!?!?

Back to work now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem: Forget the *******s here...

Well done, keep up the good work son :up:


Laterz...
 

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Guys must be particularly dumb over there if a broad deems that answer different :rolleyes:

but... props...
 

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nice......keep it up dan
 

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Props. I use online chatting as a way to improve my game. lol. Because even though it really doesn't matter that much. But yeah online is the easiest.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't use it to improve my game, I use it to d!ck away time while i'm at work. When I'm not working i don't waste my time on it. No offence to the OP. There are more useful ways of spending your time.
PS: I know you didn't mean to say this but i have to quote it

jojoeyes: lol better answer than that other idiot gave
You might want to be careful how you word things in the future.

hint: you might have called yourself an idiot while calling the other guy an idiot.
Game on....
 
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