"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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no subject, yo

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BLONDEBARBIE1: hey guess what
jojoeyes: m?
BLONDEBARBIE1: i want u
jojoeyes: of course you do.
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: good answer
jojoeyes: lol better answer than that other idiot gave
BLONDEBARBIE1: every guy always says i want u too or like so do u wanna hang out
BLONDEBARBIE1: and u didnt
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
BLONDEBARBIE1: hey guess what
jojoeyes: m?
BLONDEBARBIE1: i want u
jojoeyes: of course you do.
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: good answer
jojoeyes: lol better answer than that other idiot gave
BLONDEBARBIE1: every guy always says i want u too or like so do u wanna hang out
BLONDEBARBIE1: and u didnt
BLONDEBARBIE1: yay
BLONDEBARBIE1: !
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This is what happens when you've been on the computer for too long. :)

In all fairness though, it's an interesting point you bring up. Most guys are desperate for a girl to want them.... why???? Why?!?!?!?!?! Why?!!?!?!?!?!?!??~?~?!?!?!?

Back to work now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannowillbookem: Forget the *******s here...

Well done, keep up the good work son :up:


Laterz...
 
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Guys must be particularly dumb over there if a broad deems that answer different :rolleyes:

but... props...
 
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nice......keep it up dan
 
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Props. I use online chatting as a way to improve my game. lol. Because even though it really doesn't matter that much. But yeah online is the easiest.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't use it to improve my game, I use it to d!ck away time while i'm at work. When I'm not working i don't waste my time on it. No offence to the OP. There are more useful ways of spending your time.
PS: I know you didn't mean to say this but i have to quote it

jojoeyes: lol better answer than that other idiot gave
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You might want to be careful how you word things in the future.

hint: you might have called yourself an idiot while calling the other guy an idiot.
Game on....
 
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