"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No social skills whatsoever!!

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European-DJ

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What i have Found out lately;
Atm i am spending some time with my opcomming fellow students theese days (7 days total).. The first day was easy, i spooke to everyone, and had convo All day long... But the 2nd day, 3rd day and today is killing mé - i have no clue on how to mingle and What to talk about?? I Can only hold Convo for 2-3 mins, and i am getting a bit depressed - i just realised What a louzy socializer i am!!!

Any help with This :(?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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crazyboy

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First and foremost if you can socialize with a random person for so long. Thats a good start definetly when there no alcohol involve. But you need to relax sometimes you just don't have nothing to say if your just socializing with people and thats fine. If your in school join a club or intermurural sport and get know people that way. Talk to people in your dorm or around your apartment complex. Eventually the anxiety would go away. And your words were just start to flow.
 
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European-DJ said:
What i have Found out lately;
Atm i am spending some time with my opcomming fellow students theese days (7 days total).. The first day was easy, i spooke to everyone, and had convo All day long... But the 2nd day, 3rd day and today is killing mé - i have no clue on how to mingle and What to talk about?? I Can only hold Convo for 2-3 mins, and i am getting a bit depressed - i just realised What a louzy socializer i am!!!

Any help with This :(?
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Shyness sucks but you'll get there. Good luck.
 
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