"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No social skills whatsoever!!

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European-DJ

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What i have Found out lately;
Atm i am spending some time with my opcomming fellow students theese days (7 days total).. The first day was easy, i spooke to everyone, and had convo All day long... But the 2nd day, 3rd day and today is killing mé - i have no clue on how to mingle and What to talk about?? I Can only hold Convo for 2-3 mins, and i am getting a bit depressed - i just realised What a louzy socializer i am!!!

Any help with This :(?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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crazyboy

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First and foremost if you can socialize with a random person for so long. Thats a good start definetly when there no alcohol involve. But you need to relax sometimes you just don't have nothing to say if your just socializing with people and thats fine. If your in school join a club or intermurural sport and get know people that way. Talk to people in your dorm or around your apartment complex. Eventually the anxiety would go away. And your words were just start to flow.
 
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European-DJ said:
What i have Found out lately;
Atm i am spending some time with my opcomming fellow students theese days (7 days total).. The first day was easy, i spooke to everyone, and had convo All day long... But the 2nd day, 3rd day and today is killing mé - i have no clue on how to mingle and What to talk about?? I Can only hold Convo for 2-3 mins, and i am getting a bit depressed - i just realised What a louzy socializer i am!!!

Any help with This :(?
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Shyness sucks but you'll get there. Good luck.
 
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