"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No Sexual Desire...Help Please

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Ok...I have a big problem...I am 20 years old, pretty good looking, but I have absolutely zero sexual desire. It's like my libido is completely gone. From about 13-18 my sex appetite was through the roof, but now, it's like it has completely disappeared. For instance tonight, I had a girl all over me, she was grabbing every body part I have and kept on telling me to sing to her (I sing a lot). She started to rub my d1ck, and even then, I couldn't get it up at all. I mean I don't even care if I have a girl on me or not, and because of that, it is really hard for me to get an erection. It really sucks, I can't even help it. I took Propecia (finasteride) for about 6 months for hair loss because I thought I was losing my hair, and I know that low libido is a side effect of it, but I have been off of it for about 5 months now.

I have no idea what to do, it's like my manhood has been completely taken away from me. If I can't get an erection anymore, it's like life is now completely pointless if I am unable to procreate. I am pretty shy, so it may be a psychological problem (for instance I am unable to piss in a public bathroom when other guys are in there). I can get an erection when I want to when I am by myself looking at porn, but when I am with a girl I can't at all.

Has anyone been through this and can you give me any help, I am at the end of my string here, and it's getting me pretty depressed...

Thanks...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah, I am really big into lifting weights, my diet is good and I work out 5 times a week. I will probably go to a doctor about it, this is really ****ing me up, thanks man.
 

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dont jack off at all. no porn

lifting weights gets me MAD horny, especially if your taking a supplement like no explode
 

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sexy_kuta said:
dont jack off at all. no porn

lifting weights gets me MAD horny, especially if your taking a supplement like no explode
Yeah I plan to start getting back on a NO supplement and start taking l-arginine and horny goat weed. I also stopped looking at porn and jacking off about 2 days ago, deleted all of it off of my harddrive. Thanks for the help dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah I plan to start getting back on a NO supplement and start taking l-arginine and horny goat weed. I also stopped looking at porn and jacking off about 2 days ago, deleted all of it off of my harddrive. Thanks for the help dude.
lol, dont jack off or anything for a week, trust me. your **** will kick in, i had lost my sex drive before, until i stopped jacking off
 

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Yeah, it can make you not give a **** about anything. I'll try it out for about 2-3 weeks and if **** doesn't improve, I'm either going to kill myself or go to the doctor, lol.
 

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work out and dont jack off, trust me man, you'll get MAD horny
 

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Hope so, I got the working out thing covered, it's practically my religion. I have been pretty depressed lately, I have been contemplating **** no "normal" person thinks about, and it's starting to take it's toll on me, so that may have something to do with it. I'll try the no jacking off thing and see how it works.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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