"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No Sexual Desire...Help Please

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Ok...I have a big problem...I am 20 years old, pretty good looking, but I have absolutely zero sexual desire. It's like my libido is completely gone. From about 13-18 my sex appetite was through the roof, but now, it's like it has completely disappeared. For instance tonight, I had a girl all over me, she was grabbing every body part I have and kept on telling me to sing to her (I sing a lot). She started to rub my d1ck, and even then, I couldn't get it up at all. I mean I don't even care if I have a girl on me or not, and because of that, it is really hard for me to get an erection. It really sucks, I can't even help it. I took Propecia (finasteride) for about 6 months for hair loss because I thought I was losing my hair, and I know that low libido is a side effect of it, but I have been off of it for about 5 months now.

I have no idea what to do, it's like my manhood has been completely taken away from me. If I can't get an erection anymore, it's like life is now completely pointless if I am unable to procreate. I am pretty shy, so it may be a psychological problem (for instance I am unable to piss in a public bathroom when other guys are in there). I can get an erection when I want to when I am by myself looking at porn, but when I am with a girl I can't at all.

Has anyone been through this and can you give me any help, I am at the end of my string here, and it's getting me pretty depressed...

Thanks...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, I am really big into lifting weights, my diet is good and I work out 5 times a week. I will probably go to a doctor about it, this is really ****ing me up, thanks man.
 

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dont jack off at all. no porn

lifting weights gets me MAD horny, especially if your taking a supplement like no explode
 

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sexy_kuta said:
dont jack off at all. no porn

lifting weights gets me MAD horny, especially if your taking a supplement like no explode
Yeah I plan to start getting back on a NO supplement and start taking l-arginine and horny goat weed. I also stopped looking at porn and jacking off about 2 days ago, deleted all of it off of my harddrive. Thanks for the help dude.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ReZin said:
Yeah I plan to start getting back on a NO supplement and start taking l-arginine and horny goat weed. I also stopped looking at porn and jacking off about 2 days ago, deleted all of it off of my harddrive. Thanks for the help dude.
lol, dont jack off or anything for a week, trust me. your **** will kick in, i had lost my sex drive before, until i stopped jacking off
 

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Yeah, it can make you not give a **** about anything. I'll try it out for about 2-3 weeks and if **** doesn't improve, I'm either going to kill myself or go to the doctor, lol.
 

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work out and dont jack off, trust me man, you'll get MAD horny
 

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Hope so, I got the working out thing covered, it's practically my religion. I have been pretty depressed lately, I have been contemplating **** no "normal" person thinks about, and it's starting to take it's toll on me, so that may have something to do with it. I'll try the no jacking off thing and see how it works.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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