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Has anybody been in a committed relationship ...living together with kids and there was no sex?
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When she withholds sex then it’s a power play. You tell her how it is and if she doesn’t start giving it up then you walk away. It’s comply or bye when it comes to women.Has anybody been in a committed relationship ...living together with kids and there was no sex?
I don't think it works like that. Women do a slow poison drip on a man over years and years until he's a former shell of himself and by that point he doesn't even think he deserves sex.When she withholds sex then it’s a power play. You tell her how it is and if she doesn’t start giving it up then you walk away. It’s comply or bye when it comes to women.
That’s why frame is important. You can’t be a beta or turn into one.I don't think it works like that. Women do a slow poison drip on a man over years and years until he's a former shell of himself and by that point he doesn't even think he deserves sex.
This is actually super weak imo and a massive turnoff to women. If you want such a robotic transaction then get a hooker.When she withholds sex then it’s a power play. You tell her how it is and if she doesn’t start giving it up then you walk away. It’s comply or bye when it comes to women.
ThisDoesn't happen if you have an open marriage and other women are attracted to you. The knowledge that you have other options keeps your bed warm.
However, in most LTR women demand exclusivity to be the gatekeepers of sex and then they can deny you pleasure if you don't behave like their good little boy. And if you do behave like a good little boy, they lose respect for you and don't give you any either.
I turned my dead bedroom into a 5x+ a week bedroom. Just saying.Whenever you stop getting sex the relationship as it exists now is OVER. As mentioned above, your only chance is to open up the relationship, and you better book a trip to Amsterdam at first. Because the " who gets a new partner first "race is 99,9 times won by the woman..
If this is you, OP, I suggest you head on over to r/MarriedRedPill and get to work.Has anybody been in a committed relationship ...living together with kids and there was no sex?
Sounds to me that you are obsessed with her or with sexI turned my dead bedroom into a 5x+ a week bedroom. Just saying.
To be fair, I'm not "natural" and I'm also 29. My T levels are likely twice that of every natural poster on this board, and I've always had a hyperactive libido - even when I was hypogondal.It is not natural to want / feel the need to bang your really long term gf more than maybe 2-3 times a week ( even that is quite high , especially if your 35+ )
I don't disagree with this statement.guys who are obsessed about being “alpha” for sure obsessed about what other thinks about them. That is very un-alpha if you ask me
Oh, if you have a hyper libido and is just not bullsh1t makes sense what you are sayingTo be fair, I'm not "natural" and I'm also 29. My T levels are likely twice that of every natural poster on this board, and I've always had a hyperactive libido - even when I was hypogondal.
Not obsessed with my wife, I just have a nonstop urge to get laid. Ironically, when I was obsessed with my wife, I was getting laid far less.
I don't disagree with this statement.
Yeah, back when I wasn't getting any - I was the dude cranking it 2-3x a day. Yes, it was a problem, but that probably gives some perspective.Oh, if you have a hyper libido and is just not bullsh1t makes sense what you are saying
Well, I don't want to go on a derail here so I won't go into specifics, but there are some nuanced differences that would make these statements more accurate. I might post a thread in the Health and Fitness sub one day to help elaborate.Your T level has nothing to do with libido. After a certain level it only makes you just more aggressive
That is why the T levels dropped for most guys, because we live in a world where being aggressive puts you in trouble and because of obesity
Patently untrue.Your T level has nothing to do with libido. After a certain level it only makes you just more aggressive