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No sex drive after breakup..

captain55

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Its been a month now since the breakup and my sex drive is gone. i have absolutely no motivate to date again or even hit the bar and club scene. I tried getting on tinder and it never really goes anywhere because I don't see the point. Have some women more attractive than her into me as well so it just doesn't make any sense I should be happy Im single.

Is there anything you guys recommend to help me get my libido back?
 

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captain55 said:
Its been a month now since the breakup and my sex drive is gone. i have absolutely no motivate to date again or even hit the bar and club scene. I tried getting on tinder and it never really goes anywhere because I don't see the point. Have some women more attractive than her into me as well so it just doesn't make any sense I should be happy Im single.

Is there anything you guys recommend to help me get my libido back?
Take it from me, I know exactly what you are currently going through. This is normal and a pivotal time in shaping your future. While your desire for Women right now is low because your just heartbroken, Hit the gym or workout and get yourself in good shape. Start doing things productive with yourself that you will benefit from in the future because this is just a phase. You wont feel like this in a year's time and look back. I remember when i was going through it.. I even went over to a female friends house and she gave me a BJ, all i did was shrug at it and said thanks LOL! seriously though, I had alot of girls into me, i just wasnt feeling it at the time. I worked out hard, got the fitness model look and focused on my business. Once i started getting over it.. My money was good and i was leaned out in fantastic shape. When i was ready to date again... I was going through girls like shooting fish in a barrel.
 

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fvck more women. if you jerk off then you'll think about some dude railing your ex. New pvssy gets you into a new groove. Might take a bit to come around but it will be faster than just waiting around thinking about the past
 

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Cold showers and the gym. You only feel like a f@ggot because you probably went out like giving up all your power and dignity instead of walking away. Just your mind playing tricks on you - that b!tch ain't ****.

Block her from everything - go out with these new chicks - pop a Viagra and smash. You'll get your mojo back.

NO FAPPING EITHER.
 

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captain55 said:
Its been a month now since the breakup and my sex drive is gone. i have absolutely no motivate to date again or even hit the bar and club scene. I tried getting on tinder and it never really goes anywhere because I don't see the point. Have some women more attractive than her into me as well so it just doesn't make any sense I should be happy Im single.

Is there anything you guys recommend to help me get my libido back?
You just got out of a relationship. Maybe it's your body telling you to focus on other things for a while. I go through stages where I couldn't give two $hits about whether I've got a woman to jump on my c0ck or not. <------I consider this a good thing. It's a down time, I chill out, replenish my fluids, read, save some money, reflect, focus on me for a while. I don't stop going to the gym, or letting myself go, however, getting laid just gets put on the bottom of my list of things to do.

Then, after a while I'm ready to go again, and next thing you know I'm beating that pu$$y up like I never left it.

Like riding a bike.
 

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captain55 said:
Its been a month now since the breakup and my sex drive is gone. i have absolutely no motivate to date again or even hit the bar and club scene. I tried getting on tinder and it never really goes anywhere because I don't see the point. Have some women more attractive than her into me as well so it just doesn't make any sense I should be happy Im single.

Is there anything you guys recommend to help me get my libido back?

Had the same thing, even though I didnt like my GF, then a few weeks later FAWUKKKKKKKKKKKK sex drive slaps me in the face. :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
 

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I had the same problem a few months ago after breaking up with a girlfriend. I actually had sex a few times, and like you, it was with hotter girls, but out of about ten times with two different girls I only cu­mmed once, and with one girl (the ex's best friend, no less) I couldn't get hard at all. Eventually I realised I just wasn't over her yet, because we were still living together. Within days of moving away, she vanished from my thoughts almost completely, and everything returned to normal.

Just give it time.
 
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