"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No sensitivity some mornings

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So I’ve noticed over the years, wether it be with myself or with a current partner, that my penis is not that sensitive in the morning. I can still have an erection but it’s majorly desensitized; like I have a rubber boner.

If I walk around for a little bit, that numbness goes away and it starts to regain its normalcy. Anyone else experience this and know why?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Maybe too much banging or masturbation? I know when I have a lot of sex, my penis isn’t as sensitive, takes longer to achieve orgasm.
 

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Could be how you are sleeping. Are you wearing underwear? It's possible they get tangled up and cut circulation in that area. Best to wear boxers or nothing at all.
 

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Thanks for the responses.

I don’t have cancer though.

I think the difference is between morning boner (morning wood) and an arousal boner.

When I have morning wood with the GF, I can go forever, but it don’t feel everything like I would normally. And it’s not that enjoyable; not fully in it mentally.
I know in the past even when I’ve masturbated first thing in the morning it’s taken way longer. And the difference is because of arousal. When the morning wood is there; it’s like ‘ah well, might as well make use of it!’ Haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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