"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nan3109

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Whenever I ask my girlfriend a DJ question like (we've been together 8 months)

"What is it about me that excites you?"

And after she told me I'm different that all the other guys she's dated in the way that i'm very open and talk about whats on my mind or what bothers me about talk things out (and never give it) and she says that she doesnt know how I think

"Why do you feel you don't know how I think"

SHE ALWAYS RESPONDS WITH QUESTIONS LIKE THAT "I DUNNO..." AND HAS TROUBLE EXPLAINING HOW SHE FEELS ABOUT THINGS IN OUR RELATIONSHIP.

what could i be doing to make this not be a problem or what should I not be doing? what do you guys think shes thinking/going through? shes not very open/ doesnt have any REAL personal problems she tells me about/ or has.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mine does that too.

I just take it that she loves me and I keep on thinking about it that way. After all, if she didn't like you she wouldn't be with you.
 

nan3109

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but, sheesh, how can you tell when a girl loves you? (i think ill make a thread about that one!)
 
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