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there isn't enough pus sy in indianapolis. it's so lame that i have to drive to columbus for pus sy
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chicago and nyc have good pus sy. especially nyc. but chicago is to expensive and nyc is way to expensive and to far awayBetterCallSaul said:I've been to Indy a few times before. As a city, it's ok, at best. It's not really a big enough city to do some of the stuff you'd expect to find in places like Chicago or NYC. I've always gotten the impression that that's what it's trying to do, be more like Chicago but it's never really going to pull that off.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
it offers more than indianapolis but to damn expensivePeasantPlayer said:I'm from Chicago its ***** is ok, but I lived here some I am used to what the city has to offer.
you suck. im beter then yuoTictac said:The city of Indianapolis has a population of about 850,000. The metropolitan area that includes Indianapolis is about 2,000,000.
Unless Indianapolis is strange, about half of those two numbers are women. Unless ALL those women are either married or terminally ugly, it's not Indianapolis that has the 'problem'.