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there isn't enough pus sy in indianapolis. it's so lame that i have to drive to columbus for pus sy
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
chicago and nyc have good pus sy. especially nyc. but chicago is to expensive and nyc is way to expensive and to far awayBetterCallSaul said:I've been to Indy a few times before. As a city, it's ok, at best. It's not really a big enough city to do some of the stuff you'd expect to find in places like Chicago or NYC. I've always gotten the impression that that's what it's trying to do, be more like Chicago but it's never really going to pull that off.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
it offers more than indianapolis but to damn expensivePeasantPlayer said:I'm from Chicago its ***** is ok, but I lived here some I am used to what the city has to offer.
you suck. im beter then yuoTictac said:The city of Indianapolis has a population of about 850,000. The metropolitan area that includes Indianapolis is about 2,000,000.
Unless Indianapolis is strange, about half of those two numbers are women. Unless ALL those women are either married or terminally ugly, it's not Indianapolis that has the 'problem'.