"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No pullup bar at home

jt the azn

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Are there any tricks I can use to improvise in having a pullup bar at home? I saw some for sale at a store but they cost like 70 dollars.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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onyx

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get them bars you can fit in your doorway to your bedroom or something, they cheap as **** like $20
 

spesmilitis

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I used my door in highschool. Not the door frame, but the door itself. I put some towels at the top so the edges won't hurt my hand. If you're afraid the door my break, just put some stuff under the non-hinged side of the door. The door never broke on me, but I was about 100-105 when I was doing my door pull ups.

Look around, you might find a cheaper bar. I have one, I don't know how much it cost, but I know I wouldn't pay 70 for one.
 

Flyer

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there must be a monkey bar at a park near you..

as for doing it on the door, be careful not to break the doors.
 

KnockoutJM

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I have a bar, but i use a branch on a tree in front of my house..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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