"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No power rack?

goodfoot

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I started going to a commercial gym so I could go with a friend who doesn't go to my school. It's not as good as my school's gym, but the only real problem is there is no power rack. We've been using the leg press, but I'm hearing that is not nearly as effective.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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As long as there is a powerlifting bar in the gym it should be ok. Squats are not mandatory and many exercises you do in power racks can be exchanged for other exercises. Just do deadlifts and leg presses and hamstring work.
 

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Personally, I would consider looking into other gyms. You want a gym that suits your goals. Besides the equipment you have to think about the environment and atmosphere. Does it provide the kind of environment that will help to energize and motivate your workouts, whether the atmosphere of the gym makes you comfortable or ill at ease.

Who else is Training in the Gym? The kind of people who train along side of you makes a difference. If you are surrounded by people who are serious and train with a lot of intensity, its easier for you to do the same thing. But, it can be really hard to really blast your muscles while the people around you are just going through motions.

Some are against squats or just dont like doing them. But if your looking for an alternative, Leg Extensions and Leg Presses will work too.
 

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I wouldn't mind using some kind of squat variation. I was trying to find a squat variation that would be safer, but I could still do a lot of weight. I think the Bulgarian split squat will be good for now, since I'm only doing one leg at a time.
 

Metzgermeister

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Try the Zercher squat, my man! I lift at home in my apartment and can't fit a power rack in there. Zercher squats work great. Here's a video that demonstrates pretty well:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2OKweR-N-g
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Nik TPT

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Find a better gym.
 
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