"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No power rack?

goodfoot

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I started going to a commercial gym so I could go with a friend who doesn't go to my school. It's not as good as my school's gym, but the only real problem is there is no power rack. We've been using the leg press, but I'm hearing that is not nearly as effective.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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As long as there is a powerlifting bar in the gym it should be ok. Squats are not mandatory and many exercises you do in power racks can be exchanged for other exercises. Just do deadlifts and leg presses and hamstring work.
 

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Personally, I would consider looking into other gyms. You want a gym that suits your goals. Besides the equipment you have to think about the environment and atmosphere. Does it provide the kind of environment that will help to energize and motivate your workouts, whether the atmosphere of the gym makes you comfortable or ill at ease.

Who else is Training in the Gym? The kind of people who train along side of you makes a difference. If you are surrounded by people who are serious and train with a lot of intensity, its easier for you to do the same thing. But, it can be really hard to really blast your muscles while the people around you are just going through motions.

Some are against squats or just dont like doing them. But if your looking for an alternative, Leg Extensions and Leg Presses will work too.
 

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I wouldn't mind using some kind of squat variation. I was trying to find a squat variation that would be safer, but I could still do a lot of weight. I think the Bulgarian split squat will be good for now, since I'm only doing one leg at a time.
 

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Try the Zercher squat, my man! I lift at home in my apartment and can't fit a power rack in there. Zercher squats work great. Here's a video that demonstrates pretty well:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2OKweR-N-g
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Nik TPT

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Find a better gym.
 
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