"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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as i stated before im doing bi-daily workouts 4 times a week (in the morning i do cardio and abs, and afternoon weights and abs) its working like a charm :), from 83 kg i dropped to 80,5 kg in 2 and a half weeks, although its a very tiring training, and in the first days my body sored a lot ( cramps also ), but i started taking bcaas + glutamine + creatine and i feel im full of energy. forgot completely about fox hunting in my life for now and im focusing in my life more. all i can say is never felt better.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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fox hunting?

commas instead of decimal points?

freakin europeans
 

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You're not supposed to work your abs 8 TIMES A WEEK. They're just like every other muscle; despite the fact they regenerate slightly faster due to some different muscle fiber crap, they need heaps of rest. You will actually gain more and faster by doing less work on them.

Direct Ab work two times a week is more than enough... you don't even have to do direct ab work if you're doing things like squats and deadlifts, but it sounds to me like you should.

And remember, each set should only contain about 10-12 reps - don't make the girly mistake of doing something that takes 30 reps, that builds muscle endurance, not strength.. you want abs that pop. Chuck some weights on your chest when doing crunches, etc... just thought I'd throw that in in case you aren't aware.
 

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Brian McGee said:
You're not supposed to work your abs 8 TIMES A WEEK. They're just like every other muscle; despite the fact they regenerate slightly faster due to some different muscle fiber crap, they need heaps of rest. You will actually gain more and faster by doing less work on them.

Direct Ab work two times a week is more than enough... you don't even have to do direct ab work if you're doing things like squats and deadlifts, but it sounds to me like you should.

And remember, each set should only contain about 10-12 reps - don't make the girly mistake of doing something that takes 30 reps, that builds muscle endurance, not strength.. you want abs that pop. Chuck some weights on your chest when doing crunches, etc... just thought I'd throw that in in case you aren't aware.
Hey Brian, please do some research before you start giving advice on the forums. Thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I also agree that Brian gave good advice. Viroid, before we start flaming you for jumping the gun, what is the reason for your comment?
 

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Good advice and I agree Deadlifts and Squats and don't forget Clean and Press another compounder that also works the abs.

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Brian McGee said:
You're not supposed to work your abs 8 TIMES A WEEK. They're just like every other muscle; despite the fact they regenerate slightly faster due to some different muscle fiber crap, they need heaps of rest. You will actually gain more and faster by doing less work on them.

Direct Ab work two times a week is more than enough... you don't even have to do direct ab work if you're doing things like squats and deadlifts, but it sounds to me like you should.

And remember, each set should only contain about 10-12 reps - don't make the girly mistake of doing something that takes 30 reps, that builds muscle endurance, not strength.. you want abs that pop. Chuck some weights on your chest when doing crunches, etc... just thought I'd throw that in in case you aren't aware.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Viroid said:
Hey Brian, please do some research before you start giving advice on the forums. Thanks.
you don't have to play hard to get with people on this forum as well, just keep those skills for the ladies ;)
 

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Kev07 said:
his advice was fine

10-12 is ok, personally i would go 8-10 reps though.
He forgot to add that you need to add weights or do it on a incline. 10-12 situps is EASY without weights lol

Wait he said crunches... don't you mean normal situps?
 
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