"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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as i stated before im doing bi-daily workouts 4 times a week (in the morning i do cardio and abs, and afternoon weights and abs) its working like a charm :), from 83 kg i dropped to 80,5 kg in 2 and a half weeks, although its a very tiring training, and in the first days my body sored a lot ( cramps also ), but i started taking bcaas + glutamine + creatine and i feel im full of energy. forgot completely about fox hunting in my life for now and im focusing in my life more. all i can say is never felt better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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fox hunting?

commas instead of decimal points?

freakin europeans
 

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You're not supposed to work your abs 8 TIMES A WEEK. They're just like every other muscle; despite the fact they regenerate slightly faster due to some different muscle fiber crap, they need heaps of rest. You will actually gain more and faster by doing less work on them.

Direct Ab work two times a week is more than enough... you don't even have to do direct ab work if you're doing things like squats and deadlifts, but it sounds to me like you should.

And remember, each set should only contain about 10-12 reps - don't make the girly mistake of doing something that takes 30 reps, that builds muscle endurance, not strength.. you want abs that pop. Chuck some weights on your chest when doing crunches, etc... just thought I'd throw that in in case you aren't aware.
 

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Brian McGee said:
You're not supposed to work your abs 8 TIMES A WEEK. They're just like every other muscle; despite the fact they regenerate slightly faster due to some different muscle fiber crap, they need heaps of rest. You will actually gain more and faster by doing less work on them.

Direct Ab work two times a week is more than enough... you don't even have to do direct ab work if you're doing things like squats and deadlifts, but it sounds to me like you should.

And remember, each set should only contain about 10-12 reps - don't make the girly mistake of doing something that takes 30 reps, that builds muscle endurance, not strength.. you want abs that pop. Chuck some weights on your chest when doing crunches, etc... just thought I'd throw that in in case you aren't aware.
Hey Brian, please do some research before you start giving advice on the forums. Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I also agree that Brian gave good advice. Viroid, before we start flaming you for jumping the gun, what is the reason for your comment?
 

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Good advice and I agree Deadlifts and Squats and don't forget Clean and Press another compounder that also works the abs.

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Brian McGee said:
You're not supposed to work your abs 8 TIMES A WEEK. They're just like every other muscle; despite the fact they regenerate slightly faster due to some different muscle fiber crap, they need heaps of rest. You will actually gain more and faster by doing less work on them.

Direct Ab work two times a week is more than enough... you don't even have to do direct ab work if you're doing things like squats and deadlifts, but it sounds to me like you should.

And remember, each set should only contain about 10-12 reps - don't make the girly mistake of doing something that takes 30 reps, that builds muscle endurance, not strength.. you want abs that pop. Chuck some weights on your chest when doing crunches, etc... just thought I'd throw that in in case you aren't aware.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Viroid said:
Hey Brian, please do some research before you start giving advice on the forums. Thanks.
you don't have to play hard to get with people on this forum as well, just keep those skills for the ladies ;)
 

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Kev07 said:
his advice was fine

10-12 is ok, personally i would go 8-10 reps though.
He forgot to add that you need to add weights or do it on a incline. 10-12 situps is EASY without weights lol

Wait he said crunches... don't you mean normal situps?
 
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