Hi guys!
Im thinking of going 1 year without orgasm and wanted to see if anybody wanna join? I know this might sound crazy but there is some logic behind it. After being in the game for a while and having had sex with numerous girls I feel like Ive failed and lost my goal.
I first entered seduction to boost my ego (unconsciously). I wanted to be able to get any girl I wanted and make sure that no girl would ever be able to hurt me. After that I, like many others, got into inner game and realized that this was bigger then seduction. Deep down all I wanted was to be happy and to experience true love. (For me the effort of ONS isnt worth the price anymore)
It went pretty well, but not optimal. Heres why and why I got this idea. When I have the option to have sex Im not as selective as I could be and also theres more concerns about having sex instead of getting to know that person. Let me explain that a bit more. Have you opened or dated a girl that you´re not really really into just for the lack of something better? IMO that takes away the focus, time and opportunities of what I think most of us really want and is looking for. And it also lowers our self-image and self-respect unconsciously.
The second thing is that by thinking of sex we miss the whole point and it also removes alot of the passion and intimacy that we can build up without sex. As for masturbation/porn there is enough proves of why its not optimal to masturbate.
So my goal for 1 year is to only look for, talk to and date the girls that Im really into. Before I didnt really know what I was looking for so it was to no surprise that I didnt find it. And by decluttering my mind and giving up what is not so important there might be more space, time, drive and energy for what is important. Im not saying that this is the best way to go, but I think its pretty good when you´ve reached beyond the ONS stage, and when you dont want to settle for anything but the best. I guess that this road can be very hard and challenging and thats why I wanna see if anyone else is interested to join so we can push each other through the hard times and learn from each other.
Im thinking of going 1 year without orgasm and wanted to see if anybody wanna join? I know this might sound crazy but there is some logic behind it. After being in the game for a while and having had sex with numerous girls I feel like Ive failed and lost my goal.
I first entered seduction to boost my ego (unconsciously). I wanted to be able to get any girl I wanted and make sure that no girl would ever be able to hurt me. After that I, like many others, got into inner game and realized that this was bigger then seduction. Deep down all I wanted was to be happy and to experience true love. (For me the effort of ONS isnt worth the price anymore)
It went pretty well, but not optimal. Heres why and why I got this idea. When I have the option to have sex Im not as selective as I could be and also theres more concerns about having sex instead of getting to know that person. Let me explain that a bit more. Have you opened or dated a girl that you´re not really really into just for the lack of something better? IMO that takes away the focus, time and opportunities of what I think most of us really want and is looking for. And it also lowers our self-image and self-respect unconsciously.
The second thing is that by thinking of sex we miss the whole point and it also removes alot of the passion and intimacy that we can build up without sex. As for masturbation/porn there is enough proves of why its not optimal to masturbate.
So my goal for 1 year is to only look for, talk to and date the girls that Im really into. Before I didnt really know what I was looking for so it was to no surprise that I didnt find it. And by decluttering my mind and giving up what is not so important there might be more space, time, drive and energy for what is important. Im not saying that this is the best way to go, but I think its pretty good when you´ve reached beyond the ONS stage, and when you dont want to settle for anything but the best. I guess that this road can be very hard and challenging and thats why I wanna see if anyone else is interested to join so we can push each other through the hard times and learn from each other.
