So I have a problem, I ran into a nice girl, but apparently she doesn't trim the bush, which I don't find very attractive lol. Now it's not that I mind, but well, it's very irritating and if it's been a hot day (like nowadays) I can't be arsed to get down on that. All cool and what not, but this is the first time I don't want to do it (rest is just fine). Now that leads me to two problems: How do I keep foreplay interesting without oral sex (that's 10 minutes gone, don't know what to replace them with), and how do I explain that I don't wanne do it?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
No oral sex, what?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
how about taking her to the shower and romantically telling her you want to shave her fuzzy ******....you can't go wrong with that 
Haha, am I the only guy left on the planet who actually finds a nice bush attractive?
Tell her, lets try it without and explain to her how much more sensitive and intense it will be for both of you without the hair. Shouldn't be too hard since most women find shaved as being far more comfortable especially when they are having their period.
btw, if you do opt for shaving her be ****ing careful and look like you have done it before.
Tell her, lets try it without and explain to her how much more sensitive and intense it will be for both of you without the hair. Shouldn't be too hard since most women find shaved as being far more comfortable especially when they are having their period.
btw, if you do opt for shaving her be ****ing careful and look like you have done it before.
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Master Don Juan
Listen to this man he knows his shiatKingBeef said:how about taking her to the shower and romantically telling her you want to shave her fuzzy ******....you can't go wrong with that
Teflon_Mcgee
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Why do you need to even explain?
What's wrong with, "hey Babe, it would be so hot if you shaved down there before next time we're together."
For the future here is a little tip. I assume every girl doesnt shave her poon so I will always go on the pre-emptive before I even get her naked. The way to do this is to find a way to work it in to a conversation that you are turned off by bush. Do this before you even get her naked and she should get the hint to shave before she gets with you.
My routine is to tell her a (true) story of a boat trip in Africa were me and my boys ran into some french chicks who had hair coming out of their bikini bottoms. I go on to say how gross it was and how none of us would hook up with a girl who wouldn't even trim down there. She'll take the hint and will not feel self-consious because she knows you have no idea if she trims or not as you have not seen her naked.
What's wrong with, "hey Babe, it would be so hot if you shaved down there before next time we're together."
For the future here is a little tip. I assume every girl doesnt shave her poon so I will always go on the pre-emptive before I even get her naked. The way to do this is to find a way to work it in to a conversation that you are turned off by bush. Do this before you even get her naked and she should get the hint to shave before she gets with you.
My routine is to tell her a (true) story of a boat trip in Africa were me and my boys ran into some french chicks who had hair coming out of their bikini bottoms. I go on to say how gross it was and how none of us would hook up with a girl who wouldn't even trim down there. She'll take the hint and will not feel self-consious because she knows you have no idea if she trims or not as you have not seen her naked.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Docs
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This shoudn't be in tips..
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
not sure why people are all posting their problems in the tips..why not the discussion board?