So I have a problem, I ran into a nice girl, but apparently she doesn't trim the bush, which I don't find very attractive lol. Now it's not that I mind, but well, it's very irritating and if it's been a hot day (like nowadays) I can't be arsed to get down on that. All cool and what not, but this is the first time I don't want to do it (rest is just fine). Now that leads me to two problems: How do I keep foreplay interesting without oral sex (that's 10 minutes gone, don't know what to replace them with), and how do I explain that I don't wanne do it?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
No oral sex, what?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
how about taking her to the shower and romantically telling her you want to shave her fuzzy ******....you can't go wrong with that 
Haha, am I the only guy left on the planet who actually finds a nice bush attractive?
Tell her, lets try it without and explain to her how much more sensitive and intense it will be for both of you without the hair. Shouldn't be too hard since most women find shaved as being far more comfortable especially when they are having their period.
btw, if you do opt for shaving her be ****ing careful and look like you have done it before.
Tell her, lets try it without and explain to her how much more sensitive and intense it will be for both of you without the hair. Shouldn't be too hard since most women find shaved as being far more comfortable especially when they are having their period.
btw, if you do opt for shaving her be ****ing careful and look like you have done it before.
typical
Master Don Juan
Listen to this man he knows his shiatKingBeef said:how about taking her to the shower and romantically telling her you want to shave her fuzzy ******....you can't go wrong with that
Teflon_Mcgee
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Why do you need to even explain?
What's wrong with, "hey Babe, it would be so hot if you shaved down there before next time we're together."
For the future here is a little tip. I assume every girl doesnt shave her poon so I will always go on the pre-emptive before I even get her naked. The way to do this is to find a way to work it in to a conversation that you are turned off by bush. Do this before you even get her naked and she should get the hint to shave before she gets with you.
My routine is to tell her a (true) story of a boat trip in Africa were me and my boys ran into some french chicks who had hair coming out of their bikini bottoms. I go on to say how gross it was and how none of us would hook up with a girl who wouldn't even trim down there. She'll take the hint and will not feel self-consious because she knows you have no idea if she trims or not as you have not seen her naked.
What's wrong with, "hey Babe, it would be so hot if you shaved down there before next time we're together."
For the future here is a little tip. I assume every girl doesnt shave her poon so I will always go on the pre-emptive before I even get her naked. The way to do this is to find a way to work it in to a conversation that you are turned off by bush. Do this before you even get her naked and she should get the hint to shave before she gets with you.
My routine is to tell her a (true) story of a boat trip in Africa were me and my boys ran into some french chicks who had hair coming out of their bikini bottoms. I go on to say how gross it was and how none of us would hook up with a girl who wouldn't even trim down there. She'll take the hint and will not feel self-consious because she knows you have no idea if she trims or not as you have not seen her naked.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Docs
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This shoudn't be in tips..
defiancy
Senior Don Juan
not sure why people are all posting their problems in the tips..why not the discussion board?