"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nobody will do anything with me. I don't call like a needy little boy, in fact I rarely call anyone. But no one will ever do anything with me. Seriously... don't overlook this. Please give me some advice.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The visa card has this right.
You have to get some friends, and hang out some, and make things natural.
Or something like that. Just remember that it's a process.
 
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Its alright ot call guys to find something to do. You just don't want to call a girl that you're interested in a lot to try to set up a date all the time.
 
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lol or you can just buy some video games and have fun yourself. Apparently my friend met her bf by playing CounterStrike. This girls not a nerd either she's HB9 lol it's actually ironic, her previous bf introduced her to the game she got hooked on it and met this new guy and dumped her old bf hahaha:crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Noctlos
Nobody will do anything with me. I don't call like a needy little boy, in fact I rarely call anyone. But no one will ever do anything with me. Seriously... don't overlook this. Please give me some advice.
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its not needy to call people to find things to do.. if youre friend called you to ask if there were any parties, or if you guys could hang out or if he could go over to your house, would you hold that against him somehow? just dont do it to often, like once or twice a weekend per person is ok i guess.
 
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