"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Noctlos

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Nobody will do anything with me. I don't call like a needy little boy, in fact I rarely call anyone. But no one will ever do anything with me. Seriously... don't overlook this. Please give me some advice.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The visa card has this right.
You have to get some friends, and hang out some, and make things natural.
Or something like that. Just remember that it's a process.
 
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immrtlwun

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Its alright ot call guys to find something to do. You just don't want to call a girl that you're interested in a lot to try to set up a date all the time.
 
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lol or you can just buy some video games and have fun yourself. Apparently my friend met her bf by playing CounterStrike. This girls not a nerd either she's HB9 lol it's actually ironic, her previous bf introduced her to the game she got hooked on it and met this new guy and dumped her old bf hahaha:crackup:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dirtyvibe

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Originally posted by Noctlos
Nobody will do anything with me. I don't call like a needy little boy, in fact I rarely call anyone. But no one will ever do anything with me. Seriously... don't overlook this. Please give me some advice.
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its not needy to call people to find things to do.. if youre friend called you to ask if there were any parties, or if you guys could hang out or if he could go over to your house, would you hold that against him somehow? just dont do it to often, like once or twice a weekend per person is ok i guess.
 
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