"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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- Thread starter Oni
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Don't wait for timing, make your own. Say, "hey", she'll look at you and then kiss her.
I'm rooting for you man.
You could also spin this a bit afterwards and tell her something like you wanted to wait a few dates to make sure she wasn't just after your body. That should at least get a laugh.
Oni said:
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
If she is interested in you, she will kiss you, because either she wants to, or cares about your feelings, and doesnt want you to feel rejected, which means she will want to in the future.
But all you have to do is take the chance. Dont get caught in the friend zone, try to get intimate, more kino, let her know without telling her directly that you want to do more than watch movies with her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There's a festival coming up soon that im asking her out to, I plan on making the move that day. But i wanna make sure that she's ready for it first.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
Oni said:
IF you didn't have that many posts, unless they are all from this thread, I would say you're a troll.
Get this straight in your little hard head SHE WILL NEVER BE READY FOR ANYTHING YOU TRY ON HER. Get it???? Maybe when she is 78, widowed, with grandchildren, and lonely, she'll be able to handle a little peck on the lips from you.
At this point she is looking away and doesn't want to keep eye contact with you because you are coming across as needy and creepy, trying to hard, and she most likely already has you on the friend zone. Now, you probably not gonna end up being her friend by the time this is all over, so BE A MAN AND MAKE YOUR MOVE, for KRISAKES!!!!