"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No nut November?

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I’m not really doing it but I wonder who is. I usually get off the old fashioned way (sex) 1-4 times a day but there’s been a bit of a stretch this week for various reasons we haven’t seen each other. It dawned on me that I haven’t since last Sunday meaning 5.5 days at this point. A few days into it didn’t really phase me. Around day 3 libido started getting noticeable. I started edging a few times. It’s kind of counterintuitive but I kind of like it. The energy and focus are definitely up. However I don’t see how people actually are able to do this. I give myself a day or two more at the max. Personally also, waiting like, 4, 5 days or longer seeing the massive load is also really fun, so that’s what motivates me also. Anyone ever see a girl run to the bathroom and literally see gravity drop a half gallon on the floor or let her finish you off orally intended to swallow and she still has to wipe it off? So yeah that’s where I am at these days. Off to Muay Thai. Enjoy your mornings.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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waiting like, 4, 5 days or longer seeing the massive load is also really fun, so that’s what motivates me also. Anyone ever see a girl run to the bathroom and literally see gravity drop a half gallon on the floor or let her finish you off orally intended to swallow and she still has to wipe it off?
I have been doing no porn and no fap for years. I have orgasms via sex or unconsciously in wet dreams. I enjoy dropping massive loads inside women's vaginas. I use condoms so both of us can see how big of a load I dropped. I also like not being too concerned about pregnancy either.
 

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No offense but who has time to have sex 4 times a day every day? Do you literally have nothing else to do in life?

That would be like 6-7 hours of my life every day if I did that
 

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No offense but who has time to have sex 4 times a day every day? Do you literally have nothing else to do in life?
That would be like 6-7 hours of my life every day if I did that
Thinking that spending 6-7 hours daily on a bedroom marathon is a bit much is fair. I mean, who's got the time, right? But here's the thing: for some folks, that's their jam. High libido? Check. The stamina of a marathon runner? Double check.

Now, not everyone's into setting bedroom world records. Some might prefer binge-watching a series, hitting the gym, or mastering the art of baking sourdough bread. To each their own! And for those bedroom Olympians? Maybe they've just figured out how to multitask like a boss. Who says you can't discuss philosophy or solve quantum physics problems while... you know, getting busy?

Bottom line: What tickles your fancy might be another person's snooze fest. Life's a buffet, and some folks pile their plate high with sexual acrobatics. Who are we to judge if everyone's having a good time? Party on, bedroom warriors!
 

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Thinking that spending 6-7 hours daily on a bedroom marathon is a bit much is fair. I mean, who's got the time, right? But here's the thing: for some folks, that's their jam. High libido? Check. The stamina of a marathon runner? Double check.

Now, not everyone's into setting bedroom world records. Some might prefer binge-watching a series, hitting the gym, or mastering the art of baking sourdough bread. To each their own! And for those bedroom Olympians? Maybe they've just figured out how to multitask like a boss. Who says you can't discuss philosophy or solve quantum physics problems while... you know, getting busy?

Bottom line: What tickles your fancy might be another person's snooze fest. Life's a buffet, and some folks pile their plate high with sexual acrobatics. Who are we to judge if everyone's having a good time? Party on, bedroom warriors!
Oh I am all for bedroom marathons. But every day? Unless you are both unemployed and have nothing else going on...

 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh I am all for bedroom marathons. But every day? Unless you are both unemployed and have nothing else going on...
It really boils down to what's going on in your life - your job, how much spare time you've got, and many other factors. But managing to squeeze in a couple of solid hours each day? That should be doable for most guys, no matter their circumstances. After all, we all decide what's worth our time, so if you'd rather spend all your spare time windsurfing or, you know, fishing for belly button fluff, then more power to you!
 

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It really boils down to what's going on in your life - your job, how much spare time you've got, and many other factors. But managing to squeeze in a couple of solid hours each day? That should be doable for most guys, no matter their circumstances. After all, we all decide what's worth our time, so if you'd rather spend all your spare time windsurfing or, you know, fishing for belly button fluff, then more power to you!
Doc with all due respect, you're a quack.
 

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Doc with all due respect, you're a quack.
Wow, I must admit, I'm truly flattered by your dedication to responding to each and every one of my posts. It's not every day one finds such a devoted fan! Your unwavering attention to my words makes me feel like a celebrity. I'm almost convinced you've set up alerts just for my posts. Thanks for making me the star of your forum experience – your commitment is the kind of support every aspiring influencer dreams of!
 

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Wow, I must admit, I'm truly flattered by your dedication to responding to each and every one of my posts. It's not every day one finds such a devoted fan! Your unwavering attention to my words makes me feel like a celebrity. I'm almost convinced you've set up alerts just for my posts. Thanks for making me the star of your forum experience – your commitment is the kind of support every aspiring influencer dreams of!
Unless you're Doogie Howser, there ain't no way you're squeezing off a couple rounds per day.
 

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have had no desire to watch porn or rub one out since I’m getting some azz here and there. I just use my bathmate water pump in the shower for the lil member gains and call it a day.
 

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I don’t think I understand some of the inferences of multiple times a day taking 6 hours. Other than general chest puffing at the expense of my nice thread here, that’s not really my experience. A typical day let’s say looks like this: wake up, bang for 15-20 min at 7am. Go do whatever, screw again 9am for a short while. Maybe we swing back in the evening after a full day, round 3, hit the sack around 10-11pm and smash and hit the sack. Doesn’t seem too difficult. Oh and we made a sex tape Saturday night. That was fun.
 
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I don’t think I understand some of the inferences of multiple times a day taking 6 hours. Other than general chest puffing at the expense of my nice thread here, that’s not really my experience. A typical day let’s say looks like this: wake up, bang for 15-20 min at 7am. Go do whatever, screw again 9am for a short while. Maybe we swing back in the evening after a full day, round 3, hit the sack around 10-11pm and smash and hit the sack. Doesn’t seem too difficult.
I must be missing something... sex doesn't get boring for you? Once or twice a week is enough for me, I can think of a pile of things I'd rather be doing than constantly fvking. Have you guys been walking through the desert for the last 10 years or something? Maybe you guys are under a lot of stress or something. I can eat my favorite pizza maybe twice in one week, after that, the thought of more pizza, even different pizza is a bit of a turn off. Pizza goes with video games for a reason.

I know I'm not in the minority here either, friends that eat tacos or rice or noodles all prefer video games, board games, model building, magic cards, whatever to constantly stuffing their face. It's possible you have an eating disorder.

More to the point, I have a friend who hasn't had sex in 20 years. It's ALL he talks about and he has a porn folder that takes up an entire hard drive partition.
 
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Most people who do nano obsess about it, constantly. If you don't like writing simply don't do it. If you're not able to write consistently you simply should not be a writer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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