You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Yea, true. I was thinking she could be in high school since he said 14 also, but then again, he probably wouldn't have said 13 also if she wasn't really 13.Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
No, im serious. Does she have an older sister?
If you **** a 13 year old, Im going to request you get banned. Have some ****ing pride, will you?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
THAT'S ****ING SICK!Originally posted by Nex
My 13 year old female cousin was dating a 24 year old.
That's ****ED up. And she says she's a virgin.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is got to be one of the most illogical ways to make a decision, thats like saying "If you dont buy these drugs some other guy is going to be buying them later". Or "if you dont rob this store, some other guy will eventually". I am not argueing with if you think its right that he should go out with the 13 y/o I am saying that this is not the way to base a decision.Originally posted by Jack McCrack
if your not doing her........some other high-schooler or older guy is going to .....