EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
Did anybody read no more Mr. nice guy? Is it worth spending 10 hours to read it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No more mr. nice guy
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MillionBillionaire
Master Don Juan
No more Mr. Nice Guy took me like 1 or 2 days to read... and yes it is worth the read just for the stories in the books, you might read about someone like you in there.
MrJack
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I know about it but haven't read as if yet.
Another good one is "The Power of Now"
Still haven't read the whole thing but it's a good one that I recommend checking out.
Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
Yes. NMMNG is a great book and a must-read for any DJ. The Power of Now is way too new age and spacey for me.
EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
I've read The Power Of Now. While few ideas were really worth reading 95% of that book was some utter bullsheet.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MrJack
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Haha like I said I haven't read the whole thing I kinda skipped around to parts I was interested in.
It is a little too spiritual for me but there are good things on the book as well
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
I read it years ago. Highly recommend any dude reading this book who just came off a break up where he says to himself "I did EVERYTHING to her, I loved her and did whatever she asked..." Then watched as she started fvcking a dude that treats her like cr@p.
This book not only explain WHY this happens, but will actually give you tools to recover from being a nice guy doormat.
This book not only explain WHY this happens, but will actually give you tools to recover from being a nice guy doormat.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
the nice guy has left the building...
no book required...just get your heart stepped on... a bunch of times.
How many times do you need to hit your thumb with a hammer before you realize...'YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG'?
no book required...just get your heart stepped on... a bunch of times.
How many times do you need to hit your thumb with a hammer before you realize...'YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG'?
Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
Definently a must read book. Will point you in the right direction of getting out of chodism.