"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did anybody read no more Mr. nice guy? Is it worth spending 10 hours to read it?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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No more Mr. Nice Guy took me like 1 or 2 days to read... and yes it is worth the read just for the stories in the books, you might read about someone like you in there.
 

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Did anybody read no more Mr. nice guy? Is it worth spending 10 hours to read it?
I know about it but haven't read as if yet.

Another good one is "The Power of Now"

Still haven't read the whole thing but it's a good one that I recommend checking out.
 

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I know about it but haven't read as if yet.

Another good one is "The Power of Now"

Still haven't read the whole thing but it's a good one that I recommend checking out.
I've read The Power Of Now. While few ideas were really worth reading 95% of that book was some utter bullsheet.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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I've read The Power Of Now. While few ideas were really worth reading 95% of that book was some utter bullsheet.
Haha like I said I haven't read the whole thing I kinda skipped around to parts I was interested in.

It is a little too spiritual for me but there are good things on the book as well
 

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I read it years ago. Highly recommend any dude reading this book who just came off a break up where he says to himself "I did EVERYTHING to her, I loved her and did whatever she asked..." Then watched as she started fvcking a dude that treats her like cr@p.

This book not only explain WHY this happens, but will actually give you tools to recover from being a nice guy doormat.
 

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the nice guy has left the building...

no book required...just get your heart stepped on... a bunch of times.

How many times do you need to hit your thumb with a hammer before you realize...'YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG'?

:p
 

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Definently a must read book. Will point you in the right direction of getting out of chodism.
 
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