"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No more head when in a "relationship."

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mrRuckus said:
Utterly and completely ridiculous.
Precisely what I think of your post.

If she doesn't want to suck it anymore then she should have ended the relationship.
I love it when kids try to flex thier muscles then leave the decison making to thier women. I bet she changes your diapers too?

The truth is is that your gf just doesn't like to do it and you don't say anything so she thinks it's okay with you. And you shouldn't even stay with her because if she isn't into doing that just for the sake of doing it then she can't be all that good in bed to begin with.
Numbnutts. Try reading the post before you regurgitate filth. What I said was she loved and had no problem sucking the c0ck before you became a couple. Afterward, she lost the feel of it because she no longer has to work at keeping the relationship intact. It's not as if she liked asparagus one day then hates it the next.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why get "head" when you can get the whole body - including the head???
 
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KarmaSutra said:
No gratuitous "hor" reference?
My hor references are never "gratuitous" they are a matter-of-fact! The hor giving "head" already identifies herself as a hor obviously - I don't want to be superfluous in my speech by identifying her as a hor since it is already obvious!
 

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mrRuckus said:
Utterly and completely ridiculous. Her actions are her fault. I for one am not going to be game to this coddling of women where they aren't responsible for their own deeds.




How is her being a moron and thinking she can coast along my fault? I don't remember failing as a mother and not teaching her not to suck in a relationship. It's her fault when i quickly scoot through the door to not let the door hit me on the ass when i walk away from the relationship with the lazy can't-be-bothered-to-please-her-man woman. If she doesn't want to suck it anymore then she should have ended the relationship.

The truth is is that your gf just doesn't like to do it and you don't say anything so she thinks it's okay with you. And you shouldn't even stay with her because if she isn't into doing that just for the sake of doing it then she can't be all that good in bed to begin with.




Why the hell do you care about the swallowing part?

I gotta agree with him about the swallowing, its so much better when they do. But anyway, long story short, we had sex tonite, and i was like wow your periods over already, damm i didnt get my monthly period head (in a joking voice) and she smiled and then play punched me and called me a jerk, so i said just kidding. But it worked cuz i planted the seed. Later that night we went to a bar and had a few drinks, on the car ride home she wanted to give me road head, i said no cuz i had 3 beers and couldnt afford to be pulled over for 2 illegal things. SO then when we get to her house she blows me in the car right in front of her house. We had to stop cuz her parents who are in their 60's just got home from their friends house and walked right by my car. If they had walked by 30 seconds sooner, theyd have seen her blowing me. But anyway, what i did worked, she was so eager to give me one tonite. The whole night was good actually, maybe she was just in a bad mood this week. I think next month i am def getting my ******* though, all i needed to do was plant that seed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rookies!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Here is the plan:

she never sucked **** before >> teach her, she now sucks it just how you love

she sucked before but she is horrible >> teach her, she now sucks it just how you love

she is ok >> teach her, she now sucks it just how you love

she is great >> do nothing but tell her that you love her doing it.

it is all about HER FEELING GREAT ABOUT DOING IT. Show her that you love when she does it because it turns you on. Make HER WANT TO DO IT AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE to please you.

you need to have the upper hand it seems to have her keep wanting to prove that she can still turn you on.
 

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it's ok, she is just wanting attention just like every other woman.. they can't really help it, but it does get annoying at times.

and you just gave it to her :(
 

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Oxide said:
it's ok, she is just wanting attention just like every other woman.. they can't really help it, but it does get annoying at times.

and you just gave it to her :(
yes, but you get the point.
some people can always be spontaneous and some cant.
some never learn how.
how can you expect someone who never learned how to be spontaneous to do anything on a whim?
sometimes you have to say what you want... like this:
"if you are good girlfriend/ wife today, i might let you suck my cVck tonight."
 

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So that would motivate you?

If your man loved you to suck his co ck every night, would you be cool with doing it every time?

even though spontaneity is important, knowing that you are doing something very awesome for that person is a strong motivator
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oxide said:
even though spontaneity is important, knowing that you are doing something very awesome for that person is a strong motivator
sure doing something awesome for someone is a strong motivator and its awesome to do something awesome for someone, but i dont even have time to do it every night and i try to always make time for my husband.


it all boils down to knowing that the other person really desires something, and making that happen.
 
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