"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No more head when in a "relationship."

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mrRuckus said:
Utterly and completely ridiculous.
Precisely what I think of your post.

If she doesn't want to suck it anymore then she should have ended the relationship.
I love it when kids try to flex thier muscles then leave the decison making to thier women. I bet she changes your diapers too?

The truth is is that your gf just doesn't like to do it and you don't say anything so she thinks it's okay with you. And you shouldn't even stay with her because if she isn't into doing that just for the sake of doing it then she can't be all that good in bed to begin with.
Numbnutts. Try reading the post before you regurgitate filth. What I said was she loved and had no problem sucking the c0ck before you became a couple. Afterward, she lost the feel of it because she no longer has to work at keeping the relationship intact. It's not as if she liked asparagus one day then hates it the next.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why get "head" when you can get the whole body - including the head???
 
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KarmaSutra said:
No gratuitous "hor" reference?
My hor references are never "gratuitous" they are a matter-of-fact! The hor giving "head" already identifies herself as a hor obviously - I don't want to be superfluous in my speech by identifying her as a hor since it is already obvious!
 

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mrRuckus said:
Utterly and completely ridiculous. Her actions are her fault. I for one am not going to be game to this coddling of women where they aren't responsible for their own deeds.




How is her being a moron and thinking she can coast along my fault? I don't remember failing as a mother and not teaching her not to suck in a relationship. It's her fault when i quickly scoot through the door to not let the door hit me on the ass when i walk away from the relationship with the lazy can't-be-bothered-to-please-her-man woman. If she doesn't want to suck it anymore then she should have ended the relationship.

The truth is is that your gf just doesn't like to do it and you don't say anything so she thinks it's okay with you. And you shouldn't even stay with her because if she isn't into doing that just for the sake of doing it then she can't be all that good in bed to begin with.




Why the hell do you care about the swallowing part?

I gotta agree with him about the swallowing, its so much better when they do. But anyway, long story short, we had sex tonite, and i was like wow your periods over already, damm i didnt get my monthly period head (in a joking voice) and she smiled and then play punched me and called me a jerk, so i said just kidding. But it worked cuz i planted the seed. Later that night we went to a bar and had a few drinks, on the car ride home she wanted to give me road head, i said no cuz i had 3 beers and couldnt afford to be pulled over for 2 illegal things. SO then when we get to her house she blows me in the car right in front of her house. We had to stop cuz her parents who are in their 60's just got home from their friends house and walked right by my car. If they had walked by 30 seconds sooner, theyd have seen her blowing me. But anyway, what i did worked, she was so eager to give me one tonite. The whole night was good actually, maybe she was just in a bad mood this week. I think next month i am def getting my ******* though, all i needed to do was plant that seed.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rookies!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Here is the plan:

she never sucked **** before >> teach her, she now sucks it just how you love

she sucked before but she is horrible >> teach her, she now sucks it just how you love

she is ok >> teach her, she now sucks it just how you love

she is great >> do nothing but tell her that you love her doing it.

it is all about HER FEELING GREAT ABOUT DOING IT. Show her that you love when she does it because it turns you on. Make HER WANT TO DO IT AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE to please you.

you need to have the upper hand it seems to have her keep wanting to prove that she can still turn you on.
 

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it's ok, she is just wanting attention just like every other woman.. they can't really help it, but it does get annoying at times.

and you just gave it to her :(
 

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Oxide said:
it's ok, she is just wanting attention just like every other woman.. they can't really help it, but it does get annoying at times.

and you just gave it to her :(
yes, but you get the point.
some people can always be spontaneous and some cant.
some never learn how.
how can you expect someone who never learned how to be spontaneous to do anything on a whim?
sometimes you have to say what you want... like this:
"if you are good girlfriend/ wife today, i might let you suck my cVck tonight."
 

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So that would motivate you?

If your man loved you to suck his co ck every night, would you be cool with doing it every time?

even though spontaneity is important, knowing that you are doing something very awesome for that person is a strong motivator
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oxide said:
even though spontaneity is important, knowing that you are doing something very awesome for that person is a strong motivator
sure doing something awesome for someone is a strong motivator and its awesome to do something awesome for someone, but i dont even have time to do it every night and i try to always make time for my husband.


it all boils down to knowing that the other person really desires something, and making that happen.
 
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