Very few do...very few. In fact with as many women as I've met and banged online I never have had a single one ever ask me for one.
Our generation no, but the younger generations of women definitely move like this. Its out there in the open,look it up..
Makes sense. If you'd had an ABSOLUTE abundance of matches ( almost every right swipe is a match) then you can filter how you feel like. You can blatantly ask ...if she shaves her vag like this or that, if she has more sexy piçs ect , and if she feels offended poof, unmatch.
And this illustration is flawed, because most men( unlike most women )won't necessarily be offended when asked to send a D pic. Nervous perhaps, offended? Nah..
(Imo)Its right up there with asking for a dinner date upfront, taking a friend along to the first date ect. We now even have women asking to pay for the baby/ dog sitter, her make up costs ect . If you know these modern h0es this shouldn't be a surprise
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@Dr.Suave recently said: it's not a double standard, its a different standard. A man will proudly show his package * ahum* or he's not packing. That's the rhetoric. She has 10 dudes lined up, why not ask who is packing and let them show & prove?
The irony is that a man whose " walking on eggshells "while using OLD( aka not that many matches) will ofcourse move more carefully and won't send a D pic out of nowhere to his " potential future wife: as useal its the infamous " azzholes" that these women carefully pick, ya know,the 5% ...young feckboys who get plenty of matches and want straight to action.
This is just my geuss; but I'd even say that these issues OP describes are happening because most OLDER women stubbornly wanna date men 10+ years younger than they are. If I match with a older woman like that I'm mostly disappointed and treat the match as such ; VERY low effort.
Not hard to imagine a 32 y.o woman aiming for 25 y.o dudes in their prime, while still expecting him to act like a 40 y.O man, date her seriously ect,if that makes sense.